Do you guys suck at relationships?

obsessive_thoughts · 01-09-2007, 12:10 AM

Because I always f*** things up.

I wanna cut so bad!

Samz · 01-09-2007, 12:15 AM

You've done so well with the not cutting, over 2 years! That is absolutly amazing so well done you :) Be proud of yourself!
Do you want to talk about whats happened to make you feel like this?

obsessive_thoughts · 01-09-2007, 12:26 AM

I keep messing things up with my girlfriend. There are so many problems I don't even know how to talk about. She's losing her patience.

I just don't know how to act with people. Don't know the rights and wrongs. I'm so careless about everything that I can't see straight. I don't know... I'm just feeling really shitty 'cause I always end up doing something wrong. Something I thought was right, but it wasn't.

I can't deal with people. I really can't. Sometimes I think I should live isolated from everyone.

obsessive_thoughts · 01-09-2007, 04:13 AM

I'm a major screwed-up. Really. I don't know how to act with people. I feel so useless. Makes me want to end it all. I can't take it. I'm tired of ****ing everything up.

emily.disenchanted · 01-09-2007, 07:58 AM

*hugs* its not you sometimes people are just complicated, you can only do your best and work through the situation, if you can talk to her about whats going on it might help, there are always people here that will listen and help as much as they can, stay safe

VanityStar · 01-09-2007, 05:20 PM

i feel that.
i never say the right thing either.
but just because you arent on the same level now doesnt mean you cant work it out.

take care, dont give up!
-Vanity

obsessive_thoughts · 01-09-2007, 05:34 PM

It seems that doing my best just isn't enough. Because I'm just not enough. I'll probably just give up having a serious relationship if this one also goes down the drain.

deviantobsession · 01-09-2007, 09:04 PM

my ex was like you but a bit more complicated if the girl loves you she sticks around TRUST ME!!! im still hanging around and he broke up with me!!!! Lol pm me if you need to chat to a girl xxx

obsessive_thoughts · 02-09-2007, 04:55 AM

That was it. She broke up with me. She said she doesn't deserve to be treated that way. Of course she doesn't! But I just ****ed everything anyway! I'm a piece of crap! She cares for me, she loves me and what does she get? I screwed up.

Goddamn, I want to die!

VanityStar · 02-09-2007, 07:54 PM

if you got another chance would you be able to change that?

you're obviously very hurt... sometimes its too hard for someone else to shoulder the burden... no matter how much they care.

would you be able to right the wrongs?

i'm sorry you are feeling so alone. i hope that you can work this out.

obsessive_thoughts · 02-09-2007, 08:07 PM

Thing is I don't know how to do it right. Maybe I'm not seeing straight, I dunno. I don't know how am I supposed to behave. At the beginning, she said, I treated her very well. Then, suddenly, I began to screw things up.
I know what I'm supposed NOT to do, now. But just don't know what TO DO to win her back.

She said she didn't want to break up with me, but she has to for our own good. Because I need to see that my actions have consequences.