Triggering (SI) - Back Again

shadowedseraph · 23-04-2010, 02:27 PM

I dont know if anyone will remeber me as i havent been on since before christmas, i've been trying to do without SI support, and i've managed 6 months, but right now all i want to do is cut its driving me mad, along with the spirit voices i feel like im going slowly out of my mind :( any advice would be greatfully recieved!

xx

x-dying-inside-x · 23-04-2010, 02:50 PM

6 months is great hunny well done!
I know it's really hard to fight the urges but is there something that has triggered you?
xxx

crazykat · 23-04-2010, 02:53 PM

I remember you. Congrats on 6 months :) Try and fight through the urges if you can (maybe distract yourself on here)

shadowedseraph · 23-04-2010, 06:18 PM

Thank you guys, i think its happening because im under quite a bit of stress from my parents at the moment and have no idea how to cope

88shelz · 23-04-2010, 09:03 PM

are you able to speak to yur parents and let them know that they are putting you under stress?
whats going on to make you feel this way?

crazykat · 24-04-2010, 06:19 AM

I agree try and talk to your parents if you can. Hold on there hun *hugs*

Revival · 24-04-2010, 10:52 AM

I remember you Shadow, it's good to see you around again, though I'm sorry that it's because you're struggling. I agree with Shelz and Kat, I think that talking to your parents is a good idea, or if you feel like you cant talk to them maybe you could write them a letter? Are you seeing a counsellor or anything right now? Maybe that could be beneficial too?

shadowedseraph · 24-04-2010, 11:03 AM

Thank you for your kind words, i'm trying to talk to my parents but its very difficult. I've arranged to see my CPN on Monday to chat things through with her.

Revival · 24-04-2010, 11:08 AM

I hope that it helps seeing your CPN and that things get easier with your parents, here if I can help xx

crazykat · 24-04-2010, 11:09 AM

Good luck with talking to them. Remember we are here to support you.

Shutter_bug · 24-04-2010, 08:16 PM

*Hugs* WOW 6 months is great!! Well done. Just concentrate on how well you are doing, and keep that in mind.
Do it for yourself more than anyone! I know it doesn't help anyone saying this but, It WILL get easier - I PROMISE!! :) You can do it Hon! I was in the same boat 1 year and 3 months ago, yeah I slipped up a few times but I got back into the routine of it.
Good luck! :) PM me if you need to talk! :) :) xxxxx

Merc · 25-04-2010, 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by melancholia

I hope that it helps seeing your CPN and that things get easier with your parents, here if I can help xx

^^that.
Good to see you again, but sorry for the reasons...
xxx

shadowedseraph · 26-04-2010, 02:13 PM

Thankyou everyone for being so kind :) I saw my CPN today and she said i was doing so much better than at this time last year that i should be proud of myself even if i slipped up (i havent so far) she's going to see me again on Thursday and see if i want her t talk to my mum. Thank you again for all your kindnesses :)

*hugs*

Merc · 26-04-2010, 11:03 PM

Sounds like she was really helpful.
Maybe you two can discuss talking to your mom a few times and you can decide what would be best for you.
Hope it goes well.
xxx