Today was my 21st. My family was great. They gave me lots of pressies and my brother made me 'birthday pancakes' for breakfast. My gran rang me, like 4 times. But did I hear from any of my friends??? Nope. Only one friend that I havent spoken to in ages messaged me, then called me. But even my best friends, nothing. I dont care what their excuses are right now. I think I need to re-evaluate my life, and see just who really does care about me. Even a simple message and they couldnt do it. Wow, dont i feel loved. I need new friends :(
"i'd rather hate you for everything you are, than ever love you for something you are not, i'd rather you hate me for everything i am than have you love me love me for something i can't BE!"
I personally dont think there is no excuse not to text/phone to say happy birthday if they are good friends, Im really sorry to hear they didnt contact u.
*gives birthday hugs*
I WILL FORGET THOSE THAT HAVE HURT ME
BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET THOSE WHO ARE ALWAYS THERE TO HELP ME
*hugs* Yeah, I know how that feels. :( I think all I heard from any friends on my last birthday was one facebook message and a phone call from a creepy guy who I'd really rather not have heard from, and nothing the year before that. But that's not so much that my friends don't care as that I never told them when my birthday was or reminded them it was coming up, and I didn't have a birthday party or anything. I think probably it's not that your friends don't care about you, but just that most people don't remember these things without being reminded a lot (like every day for a few weeks).
Emily
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Happy birthday!
I really hope that your friends will call you still today.
It is so sad when all your friends seem to forget your birthday.
I know how it feels because when I got 21 almost all my friends forgot my birthday, too, but well, some of them called me the next day.
I hope that your friends will call you soon.
At least your family gives their best to make this day a good day for you.
Take care,
Judith
I can't control my destiny.
I trust my soul. My only goal is just to be. (Rent)
I'm selfish, inpatient and a little insecure.
I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. (Marilyn Monroe)
I know what it's like to want to die. How it hurts to smile. How you try to fit in but you can't. How you hurt yourself on the outside to try to kill the thing on the inside. ~ Girl Interrupted
When you dont want to feel, death seems like a dream. ~ Girl Interrupted
I wouldn't worry too much about it though, I tend to remind people a good 2-3 weeks in advance my birthdays coming, so if they do forget they know some righteous butt kickings are in order :D :D
Maybe it's different for you but with guys we just tend to buy eachother a pint as a present, girls do tend to be slightly more fussy though :P
Seriously though have a great day, don't worry about anything but yourself for one day at least! And you better not be reading this today but tomorrow afternoon while recovering from an awesome party.
Take Care!!!
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O' mighty Lord of the Night. Master of beasts. Bringer of awe and derision.
Thou whose spirit lieth upon every act of oppression, hatred and strife.
Thou whose presence dwelleth in every shadow.
Thou who strengthen the power of every quietus.
Thou who sway every plague and storm.
Harkee.
Thou art the Emperor of Darkness
Sorry about your friends, have you tried speaking to them about it? It's possible they did genuinely just forget, and I know it still feels bad but they probably didn't mean to upset you and just had sometihng else on their minds *hugs*
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