As kat said, opening up and telling someone can be hard, you are very brave to make the decision to do so. Personally, I told people through a letter, I find that is easier and you are able to say all the things you need to. So I think a letter is a good idea. If you would rather tell them in person I would suggest that you tell them in a place you feel comfortable and maybe you could start by saying, "there is something I would like to talk to you about, it is hard for me to do, but I want you to know..." However you chose to do it is important that you are comfortable and have an idea what you want to say or don't want to say. You're in control of the situation, so you can say as little or as much as you want.
Hope this helps, best of luck with it *hugs*
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