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woundedheart · 13-08-2009, 03:39 AM

Hi everyone who reads this.... I have decided I need to be with others who may understand how it feels when there feels like nothing else will help and self harming happens... I'm not here to gloify self harming by no means...
I started to self harm two and a half years ago when our lives took a spiral down like I had never experienced before. I found I was depressed and couldnt think straight... one day I could feel ALL of this pain inside me and I hated it being there. I had no way of getting it out. My husband and I were not talking well at all.. I had no one to turn too.. I turned to cutting my arm.. I hadnt done anything like this before ( except a tiny bit when i was 13-15 years old) this seemed to help me cope better with all of the stress in life.. after time I went to a counsellor.. she helped me deal with all I had inside me... now two and a half years later again our lives are really baddd.. I started to self harm again.... I cant stand the pain inside.. I dont like how my life is going.. and if I try to make it better by changing things I get hammered from my husband and children... I guess they dont want me happy... anyway I just would like to have other people who understand how this all feels be there to support me away from this again... thanks for listening

woundedheart

crazykat · 13-08-2009, 03:42 AM

Hello
Welcome to RYL
PM me if you need anything
Take care
Kat xxx

Cazki · 13-08-2009, 02:44 PM

Hi welcome to ryl. I hope you find ryl helpful. Here is the guide to ryl http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...play.php?f=105

This is the Serious Discussion Forum http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...splay.php?f=30

Here is the Self Injury Discussion Forum http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...splay.php?f=29 If you need anything pleae dont hesitate to get in touch.

Take care best wishes Ian

im_the_kid_that_falls · 13-08-2009, 02:50 PM

hi, welcome!
Hope you get all the help you need here!
take care x-x-x

havealittlefaith · 13-08-2009, 05:22 PM

hi
welcome :)
feel free to pm me anytime
hoep you get all the help you need here
take care
xx

Katiee · 13-08-2009, 11:31 PM

Hey,
Welcome to RYL!
I'm Katie, feel free to PM me anytime. :]
Hope to see you around. xo.

14-08-2009, 02:40 AM

Welcome to RYL. Feel free to PM me anytime you want :)

TheHumanCondition · 14-08-2009, 05:29 AM

Welcome to RYL.
I'm sure you'll get the help you need here.
Feel free to PM me anytime.
- Kayla.

Tuesday · 14-08-2009, 01:36 PM

Welcome! :)

Moonlight Princess · 14-08-2009, 02:51 PM

Hi and welcome to RYL!
It's lovely to meet you!
I just want to say congratulations for beating self harm once and hopefully RYL can help you through this tough time now. As well as the forums Ian has mentioned the General Support and Advice Forum could be a good place to go for support but please feel free to explore the whole site!
Take care and if you ever want to chat feel free to PM me at anytime!
Kiran
xx