I was sectioned in hospital for 2 months and while I was away my boss came to visit me, he thinks of me as a daughter and I appreciate his concern but he has crossed the line.
He has told me if he hears about or sees that I have cut he will beat the crap out of me and kick my butt out of the job.
I'm so angry, I will only go to greater lenghts to hide it and now won't go to hospital if I need stitches. I don't think this is fair!
I'm not text book smart but I'm street smart....well sesame street smart anyway :p
I <3 you Lozza- my beautiful twin and care bear! Keep holding on. 'Whorejay'- u are my gorgeous partner in crime, who I will never give up. They can't seperate us! loooove you. I <3 Frizzly forever!!! ur my nite light R.I.P my beautiful angel Kat, you will always be in my heart. 27/03/91-31/08/09 xxx Sweetdreams baby girl xxx
i think hes trying to protect you and help you but he is going about it all wrong. i think you should speak to him and tell him you need his support to beat this, not for him to abandon you.
"When I want your opinion, I'll beat it out of you" - Dr Samuel Loomis
Yeh i agree with Raven, i think this his way of forcing you to stop. Sit him down and talk to him and just explain that this wont help, but you are willing to try. I would just say one thing, if you ever do need stiches, please go and get them. I know he's sounding harsh right now but i think he's trying to help and he wouldnt want you coming to any more harm.
^^ I agree too.
Sometimes people dont know how to deal with \ approach \ help. It sounds like he obviously cares though as to go through such great lengths to see that you stop hurting yourself. Although i do agree, its a bit harsh and definately crossing the line to say he would beat the crap out of you.
Although since you guys care about each other, maybe write him a note saying how you feel? that its not easy to stop but you want to try and youd like to have his support?
hope everything goes ok
xo
"They say time heals all wounds. I don't agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessons, but it is never gone." - Rose Kennedy
aww my little bubble, im sorry he has issued this ultimatum. i dont think he understands how that will make you feel and how much pressure it will put on you in other ways. could you write him a letter to say how you feel and that you value his help and support but this isnt going to help
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this pic is so i can always remember jen who was my l'il sock monkey friend who has left ryl and i miss her!!!
*hugs*
im sorry you have such a hard ultimatume
maybe he just doesnt realise the amount of pressure he has now put you under and how it makes you feel
could you not talk to him - if he came to visit you he must care about you
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Thankyou for the hugs and replies, I really appreciate it.
I can see from his point of view, he is doing it because he cares and because he thinks this will make me stop. But he wouldn't listen to me, he shut me down by saying stuff like..."if you cared about us like we do for you, you would stop hurting yourself"...mmm if only it worked like that!
He also said that if the job meant anything to me I would also stop.
I feel like I am up against a wall, he almost cares too much
The pressure to be sh free is over-whelming...
I'm not text book smart but I'm street smart....well sesame street smart anyway :p
I <3 you Lozza- my beautiful twin and care bear! Keep holding on. 'Whorejay'- u are my gorgeous partner in crime, who I will never give up. They can't seperate us! loooove you. I <3 Frizzly forever!!! ur my nite light R.I.P my beautiful angel Kat, you will always be in my heart. 27/03/91-31/08/09 xxx Sweetdreams baby girl xxx
if you cared about us like we do for you, you would stop hurting yourself"...mmm if only it worked like that!
^so true. i wish it did.
ugh, too much pressure can be disastrous!
it builds, and builds, and makes us more likely to fail :(
you can do it though!!!
i hope your able to sort this situation out
xo
"They say time heals all wounds. I don't agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessons, but it is never gone." - Rose Kennedy
OMG his attitude souds quite mean, although i'm not sure he means to be mean I think he cares very much & maybe you need to let him know that you care too but would like his help maybe if he doesn't seem to want to listen to you maybe there is someone else he will listen to, who can explain that it can't just happen like that & that it takes time to heal on the inside. I really hope you don't let what he said get you down & that you'll continue to go for stitches & other help when you need it *hugs*
R.I.P my beautiful angel Kat, you will always be in my heart. 27/03/91-31/08/09 xxx Sweetdreams baby girl xxx
this pic is so i can always remember jen who was my l'il sock monkey friend who has left ryl and i miss her!!! 
