It's not about my insecurity at all. I'm not insecure about what I believe. You can label the reason for posting whatever you like. You can say I shouldn't have or that it did no good. But, what is done is done.
I've gone around everywhere.
I've searched around everywhere.
I've turned around everywhere.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
Also you are blaming everything on everyone else. But you need to take some responsibility. You are not perfect, nor are others, just think about that.
I know I'm not perfect, I never claimed to be. I got a warning once. But for the most part I try to keep myself in check. I slip up. I know.
I've gone around everywhere.
I've searched around everywhere.
I've turned around everywhere.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
Just my tenpenny worth....
Recently all Ive seen is posts complaining about chat
I dont go into chat because of the things ive read about it.
All I can say is if you dont like it.....dont use it.
Yes, a simplistic view, but it works xx
The reason I didn't post on there is because it says in the rules, or somewhere I read, that all discussion or problems with chat or mods needs to only be discussed in forum and community questions. And it was sort of a questions of whether any one else had the same problem
I've gone around everywhere.
I've searched around everywhere.
I've turned around everywhere.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
Obviously people have problems with chat, you only need to look on this forum to see that. It was just a little bit of a waste of time do you not think?
More people report things than you could possibly imagine and punishment does get handed out.
All I am saying is you are taking a holier than thou attitude yet I witnessed you earlier on chat sort of stirring things up. Thats it.
I really don't see how I'm taking a holier than thou attitude by saying I have a problem with the chat last night. I don't admit to being perfect. And as far as stirring things up ealier... I simply said I think I have a communication problem and I can't get the words to mean what I am trying to say." I was not talking about this thread believe it or not. People assumed I was and said I was, but I wasn't. I also kept my mouth shut when people started talking about that.
I've gone around everywhere.
I've searched around everywhere.
I've turned around everywhere.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
And yes, I agree it has turned into a waste of time.. I didn't know it would. Maybe you knew it would, but I didn't know it would. Sorry. What is done is done, I can't change it.
I've gone around everywhere.
I've searched around everywhere.
I've turned around everywhere.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
I think people should stop attacking the OP, because to be quite frank - she had every right to post this, and in my opinion it NEEDED to be posted.
Every single person here who uses chat on a regular basis, knows we always make sexual innuendo's and have a giggle - it's what we've always done, and we will continue to do so because it's just the way we are in chat.
The point of this post is - there is a fine line between having a laugh and being disgustingly graphic and offensive. I don't think jokes of child abuse are at all necessary, and i would like MORE than just a "verbal warning" done to the offending party, because to my belief they were kicked from chat, but came back and started again anyway - so quite obviously they didn't learn from what they did.
This really has nothing to do with the general chit chat on sex in general rooms, it's more to do with the behaviour of several members last night and how disgusted the OP (along with myself and others) were at what went on.
I really do hope this is dealt with accordingly, because i'd hate to have to go through another night like last night.
A) I only made a sexual comment to cheer Qvazzy up, perhaps I could of done it in private, but I didn't. I apologised for offending anybody - Conversation over.
B) Here is why I think you are wrong, just because you have experienced abuse and find talking about anything sexual triggering does not mean people who have also experienced abuse DONT find it triggering.
If you make it sound like that, anything can be triggering to everybody in the entire world, so we might as well not bring up any subject at all in case somebody is triggered.
I feel you need to grow up, I'm sorry if I offended you it was not intended, but sugar coating you will not help you when you go out into the real world, censorship is wrong.
And people wont censor what they say In real life just because you don't like it, I wouldn't expect them to either, if something triggers me I try to avoid the conversation or I leave.
I know I know, sex chat is against the rules, maybe the rules need to be modified? Who knows? All I know is I've said sorry so I dont understand why everybody is still arguing.
Let the mods look at the logs and do what they feel is nesscary.
And as many people have said sex is a natural part of life, you can't really avoid it, it's like a lot of other things in life.
I have to remind myself that some birds just aren't meant to be caged.
Their feathers are just too bright.
And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up rejoices.
Still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty when they're gone.
A) I only made a sexual comment to cheer Qvazzy up, perhaps I could of done it in private, but I didn't. I apologised for offending anybody - Conversation over.
B) Here is why I think you are wrong, just because you have experienced abuse and find talking about anything sexual triggering does not mean people who have also experienced abuse DONT find it triggering.
If you make it sound like that, anything can be triggering to everybody in the entire world, so we might as well not bring up any subject at all in case somebody is triggered.
I feel you need to grow up, I'm sorry if I offended you it was not intended, but sugar coating you will not help you when you go out into the real world, censorship is wrong.
And people wont censor what they say In real life just because you don't like it, I wouldn't expect them to either, if something triggers me I try to avoid the conversation or I leave.
I know I know, sex chat is against the rules, maybe the rules need to be modified? Who knows? All I know is I've said sorry so I dont understand why everybody is still arguing.
Let the mods look at the logs and do what they feel is nesscary.
The way you're talking, anyone would think you just made a small sexual innuendo. What you did was disgusting (not including the racist joke, or have you forgotten about that?) and you well know it, but rather than stop, you and your "buddies" continued with the sexual content even after you'd been asked several times to stop.
It's nothing to do with talking about sex, it's to do with the fact you crossed that line - MORE than once - and still continued to act the innocent party and the "offended" one when various members confronted you on it.
And don't worry, i'm sure the mods will do what's necessary once they've read the logs.
I think people should stop attacking the OP, because to be quite frank - she had every right to post this, and in my opinion it NEEDED to be posted.
Every single person here who uses chat on a regular basis, knows we always make sexual innuendo's and have a giggle - it's what we've always done, and we will continue to do so because it's just the way we are in chat.
The point of this post is - there is a fine line between having a laugh and being disgustingly graphic and offensive. I don't think jokes of child abuse are at all necessary, and i would like MORE than just a "verbal warning" done to the offending party, because to my belief they were kicked from chat, but came back and started again anyway - so quite obviously they didn't learn from what they did.
This really has nothing to do with the general chit chat on sex in general rooms, it's more to do with the behaviour of several members last night and how disgusted the OP (along with myself and others) were at what went on.
I really do hope this is dealt with accordingly, because i'd hate to have to go through another night like last night.
That's really all i have to say on the matter.
That was not a joke, bringing up the word Madeliene McCann and not being outside a door doesn't mention anything to do with abuse.
If you think I condone abuse towards children then you would be very mistaken.
I have to remind myself that some birds just aren't meant to be caged.
Their feathers are just too bright.
And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up rejoices.
Still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty when they're gone.
I've agreed time and time again that sex chat to a point is fine. I don't know how many times I need to say it. And I know that the real world does not censor itself just because I don't like something. I can put up with things that I don't agree with or don't like discussing to a point. But the line is often crossed in chat. And like I said, when a rule is being broken I don't find it fair for people to say, leave if you don't like it because someone is breaking a rule. I can put up with stuff to a point, but when rules are broke and make people uncomfortable I don't think telling the person to leave if they don't like it is really fair.
I've gone around everywhere.
I've searched around everywhere.
I've turned around everywhere.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Jesus.
There's no one, there's no one like Him.
The way you're talking, anyone would think you just made a small sexual innuendo. What you did was disgusting (not including the racist joke, or have you forgotten about that?) and you well know it, but rather than stop, you and your "buddies" continued with the sexual content even after you'd been asked several times to stop.
It's nothing to do with talking about sex, it's to do with the fact you crossed that line - MORE than once - and still continued to act the innocent party and the "offended" one when various members confronted you on it.
And don't worry, i'm sure the mods will do what's necessary once they've read the logs.
I think you seem to be missing the point, the jokes I told weren't jokes. They were what are called anti-jokes, which some people find funny because they are just the truth.
For example:
What do you call a black pilot?
A pilot.
How is that racist? Am I not allowed to say the word black now?
I have to remind myself that some birds just aren't meant to be caged.
Their feathers are just too bright.
And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up rejoices.
Still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty when they're gone.
And might i just add - no one needs to hear jokes about child abuse or rape, nor does anyone have to sit in a mostly serious room and have someone shout "open your vagina i'll sort you out".
So really, you were majorly in the wrong, and it has absolutely nothing to do with normal sexual content, but disgusting unnecessary jokes.
