anonymoulsy bullied

emptysoul · 13-10-2008, 06:56 PM

hey,
im sure im too old for this as im nearly 20 but im being bullied online, but i have no idea who it is or if its even one person. they say they are someone who i think is a friend so now i dont knwo who i can trust anymore and who is lying about being my friend. i dont know what they are saying is true, that everyoen is sick of me and stuff but its really hurting and i cant deal with it. its getting me down so much that im thinking of moving away so i will never have to see any of my friends anymore because i cant trust anyone. please can someone give me and idea of what i should do.

emptysoul · 13-10-2008, 07:00 PM

its through the truth box on myspace

emptysoul · 13-10-2008, 07:03 PM

im not sure tbh

Akira · 13-10-2008, 07:20 PM

I would just delete this myspace applictaion. Take care. x

green.eyes · 13-10-2008, 07:32 PM

delete the application and ignore it. its probably not one of your close friends.
take care x

Miss-Dramatic · 13-10-2008, 07:34 PM

Babe thats horrible just delte ur truth box n delte der myspace thing xxx try to ingore them der just jealous xx

drampty · 13-10-2008, 07:39 PM

i agree - if you can delete it, try and do that. aldo try and report it to myspace.

and you're not too old btw - loads of bullying still goes on as we get older. Some people are just too horrible for words...

take care
-x-

N.Bluth · 13-10-2008, 07:41 PM

Delete this myspace application. it's probably just some bitter ****wit and not a really close friend. Make sure you speak up about it too your friends so they can reassure you. And report it to myspace, they need to be aware to prevent this stuff from happening. Godd luck, I hope you're ok.

l'il esky · 13-10-2008, 07:43 PM

huggles, sorry that this is happening-its not nice to feel like this and as someone above said people can be bullied at any age.... i would try and delete this part of myspace, just some sad-o that gets their kicks outta being nasty.... try to ignore them xx

roiben · 13-10-2008, 07:53 PM

There is not an age limit to bullying, unfortunately, and it can take many forms. Online is just one of the newer ones.

I know that bullying can happen to people in later life, and to those of wokring age, sometimes in work. It is not just for those at school - where the majority of people associate the word bullying with.

*hugs* It sounds like someone is just being nasty and the best thing to do with any bully is to not let it get to you. Bullies are people trying to prove their own strength and self worth by pulling others down. It proves you are stronger than them. Hold on to that, block or delete their posts and if that does not help - delete the truth box itself.

It is unlikely to be a friend. If it is, and you are still concerened it may be, most friends will not mind being vetted. There is nothing wrong with saying: did you say this, as it hurt my feelings and was not a nice thing to say. If it wasn't them, they will be honest and you will have an arm of support. If it was one of them, they have been faced directly, told it wasn't a nice thing to do and their and your actions from then on depend on their reply. Sadly, bullying is one of the fastest ways to loose friends, but it can also be the way to build the strongest sense of self and personality. Handled right, you do not need to leave to avoid friends that are most likely innocent of your fears.

Hope it gets sorted for you soon.

emptysoul · 13-10-2008, 08:01 PM

thanks everyone

Misunderstood. · 13-10-2008, 08:04 PM

can you delete the application on myspace? do they have to be a myspace friend to be able to comment?
I hope you manage to block them in some way. Sounds awful

{hugs}

Jay603 · 14-10-2008, 12:48 AM

please don't let this coward get to you. If there opinion of you mattered they would be a decent enough humman being to put there name to this stupid bulleying.

HUGS