I ruined it.

ohayla11289 · 05-09-2008, 05:48 AM

so i am probably the most worthless person in the world. or its what i feel like at least, i'm such an idiot. i ruined one of the best friendships i ever had. by being an idiot and getting mad over nothing. i'm such a failure, i am an awful friend. and the sad thing is that its happened before and i can't deal with it again. but its my fault so i deserve it i guess.

sorry for the rantish post, just feeling somewhat down.

badkitty · 05-09-2008, 06:08 AM

You arent worthless because of this. Why do you think you ruined your relationship wiht your friend?

Paw Print · 05-09-2008, 06:30 AM

*hugs* you are not worthless babe. I am not sure what the situation is but can you talk to your friend about this. Tell her that you feel like you over reacted (if that is how you feel) and tell her exactly how you are feeling and try to work through this?

You are not a failure either babe. People make mistakes. You do not deserve any pain.

*more hugs*
i am here if you ever want to talk or vent.

Misunderstood. · 05-09-2008, 09:33 AM

I've been in similar situations so I understand where you're coming from but you're ot worthless or a failure at all. Want to explain a bit more about what happened?
{lots of hugs}
Catherine xxxx

05-09-2008, 10:20 AM

Hello sweetie, you're not a failure... everyone makes mistakes all the time, see it as a learning curve. If you still want to be friends with this person, then just go and speak to them. Apologise and say you feel you've overacted, it should be fine :)

Good luck xxx

Cazki · 05-09-2008, 01:03 PM

*Hugs* Heya your not worthless at all. Why do you feel worthless? You say you got mad over nothing, would you like to talk to us about what actually happened? You dont have to if you dont wish to but if you can then it will help us to help you better and it will give us a better understanding. We all make mistakes some time in our life, iv made plenty of mistakes but we learn from them and that is where we get stronger by learning from our mistakes. Your not a failure at all. Have you tried talking to your friend? Tell here how you feel, and how sorry you are. Tell her that you didnt mean to overreact. Keep talking to us. I hope that things get sorted out with your friend soon.

All the best
Ian

Porcelain Child · 05-09-2008, 01:13 PM

Heyahh, you are not worthless... cos of the friendship breaking up..

What happened to make it get ruined?

You can talk to us its safe here..

PM box always open...

*squishes*

Claire...

ohayla11289 · 05-09-2008, 01:33 PM

well my really good friend didn't say happy birthday to me, and its not really a big deal, but its just cause in the past one of my really good friends didn't say happy birthday to me, and i had made him a card and gave him 50 dollars for his, and not to mention he knew it was my birthday he just didn't say happy birthday, this was a few years ago (3-4 years) and he hasn't said happy birthday to me since it, and i just kinda felt the same way when she didn't say it to me, so i just completely ignored her for about a month. i talked to her and all, and she says were "cool" but i still feel that its just not the same, hence i ruined it. i mean i know its dumb to get mad over the whole birthday thing, and i wouldn't if the whole thing 3-4 years ago hadn't happened. but yeah.