Guys/ Noticing attraction...

[Animad]

So we have this intern at college (it's basically a yr long course for further training after you qualify) and he was helping with one of our practicals the other day. He came and taled to us a few times and pointed out a few things on the dogs leg and stuff so it's not like I wasn't next to him or looked at him.

Anyway, I didn't think ANYTHING special. After the session we were all walking back to get changed and being in a VERY female orientated envirnoment all there was were people saying how fit the guy was and things. Now recently I've noticed this but not then. So I thought maybe it was just then but no, I've asked other people and they've all given the same response...

Recently I've been a bit sick of being the single one. I've wanted a guy but there are a few matters which complicate things so I've been looking out more than normally and though I'm pretty stuck on 1 guy I've nitced others so much more... just seems weird I didn't notice this one.

So have anyone else had similar thoughts and then just think "I need to find a reason to go to where he's working just so I can see what everyone is raving on about" and feel left out because you don't know what the obsession is.

My theory is he was a just helpful young guy in the room full of females who never see that many guys!

Wouldn't be surprised if mum's brainwashed me or something and so stopped me being attracted to anyone on the planet!

[Mandimoo]

maybe you're just harder to please which can be a good thing, you're more likely to really like a guy, rather than go out just because he asks. my friend was like that, refused to have a boyfriend before she was 18. went to uni, first lad she ever went out with, they got married at the end of uni last november.
mand x

[Animad]

Yeh, I'm not that bothered, it's just weird how I'd usually notice these days (like we rarely see guys, when we do you notice any that aren't totally disgusting!). I think my head's probably just a bit messed up right now and because I know in reality that it isn't the best thing for me my heads probably being sensible with guys that I could actually ask... I'll just have to wait and see and remember that guys would really only complicate things right now and that it's pretty much the least of my problems!

[Margo]

When i was younger i very rarely liked anyone my friends would fancy! I never really thought anything of it. They would always go for the stereotypical women society says we should want and lust for and desire and i just found them boring i think. Still do to some extent.

I think when you have a group of people all together there is a tendancy for all those involved to follow one anothers comments and thoughts for fear of being singled out. I guarantee that some of the others probably didnt think the sun shone from his back-side either!

Kim you just prolly have far superior taste to your peers and you shouldnt worry about it :P

[Animad]

Yeh, I preferred the dog to him (NOT in any kind of sick sexual way at all). Must have dne because I never even noticed whether he was even relatively good looking lol, all I say was a guy that looked like he probs had a dog bite on his hands and was showing us how to find a certain structure!

And yes, I am far superior in EVERY WAY to my peers (lol!!! that makes me sound like such an arrogant bitch which I really am not at all).

Think I've just still got the hots on one guy just the damn guy appears to be doing a very good disappearing act at the moment... and yeh, me and a relationship right now really wouldn't happen lol! Well, with most guys; there ar obviously exceptions to that!

[random.swirls]

Kim you dog pervert

[Animad]

Hmmm... yeh... now you know what we all get up to at 'college'... My secrets out!

[Margo]

Kim if you get really desperate i can put on a puppy suit and pee on your leg if that kinda thing makes you hawt! :P