Going against what I believe in?

StaceyBee · 13-02-2008, 06:25 PM

I said to my mum today I'd be a surrogate for her
Long story short, she can't have kids and her and her fiance want kids
Thing is, I've always said I want kids when I'm older cos I'm just not ready yet
I know it's not gonna be my baby exactly but I've been thinking about it a lot and whatever I decide to do, people are going to be annoyed with me
I'm really not sure what to do
I want to help my mum and make her happy but then if I do, my boyfriend will most likely be really angry with me cos he doesn't particularly like my mum cos of stuff that's happened between me and her in the past
Any advice?
PM me if you want if you've got any advice

Bleeding Angel · 13-02-2008, 06:58 PM

i dont really have any except its your choice, althought you have to look at the pros and cons really carfully

here-for-the-journey · 13-02-2008, 07:09 PM

I PMd you.

StaceyBee · 13-02-2008, 07:13 PM

Cool thanks
Just got it now and replied
:)

Pixies Stole My Sanity · 16-02-2008, 02:21 PM

If you're comfortable with doing that for your mum (as comfortable as you can be!), I don't think your boyfriend should get in the way.
Personally I think it would be a bit strange for him not to want you to help your mum, just because he doesn't see eye to eye with her. It probably wont be comfortable for him, but he should really respect the fact she's your mum and you love her and want to give her something she can't have.
Well.. that's what I think anyway >.< but it's up to you really.