should i tell my boyfriend

[bewbie]

im in a relationship with my boyfriend and he has a cousin who is a girl.she approached me and told me that she like me.i was a bit surprised the idea but instead i told her i liked here too.we moved on from there to us meeting up together at random places to make out and stuff. so since night my boyfriend call me and asked me what am i hiding from him and i told him nothing then he said to me what am i making his cousin hiding from him? i told him nothing but anyway he says he know something is being hidden and im just to tell him the truth about what is going on because he knows his cousin when she is hiding something and he is giving me a chance to fix this relationship.i also went and jumped the gun and called his cousin after ive spoken to him and told her not to say anything to my boyfriend and she did,so now i know i cant trust here either....am i supposed to tell him or try to come up with a plan b????????..i dont want to lose this relationship

[Abintra]

tell him, better he hears it from you than her,

[bewbie]

why though..im scared.

[Animad]

If you don't he's going to get more suspicious and if he hears it from her first the really he's going to think that you don't care about him much or are trying to hide other things from him especially as it seems he wants to know what is going on because he knows there's something. I would bet that he is likely to find out in the end anyway and therefore he's more likely to trust you more and therefore stay with you (if that's what you want) if you tell him the truth however hard it may be. Also look at it this way, if he was doing the same to 1 of your relatives as you are to his cousin would you prefer him to tell you or someone else? You need to look at it at both sides of the fence.

[marielgata15]

If you want to fix the relationship you'll should tell him and stop seeing his cousin or anyone else.