my husband triggers ED thoughts

[indigochild]

I am sickened right now.
I am 2 years well into recovery from anorexia, and here the thoughts keep coming back.
the what ifs, the voices, the disgust.
And im sad to say its my own husband that is triggering these thoughts.
He is extremely skinny and most days only eats one meal a day.

I keep getting angry, (not directly at him) because a part of me wishes i could do that, look like him. but i get hungry, i eat, i try to be comfrotable with my weight.

I mentioned to him today that im worried that he has lost weight and that he should eat more than one meal a day.
He agreed with me, and said he was sorry when i mentioned that his behaviors were triggering my own ED thoughts.

But i really dont know what to do about this.

And a part of me worries about what if he really has a problem himself?

[[Pixie]]

Hey,, its good that you were able to talk to your husband about this, did you explain fully how its effecting you? He sounds willing to help..
would it be possible to have set meal times & you eat together? That might make you more comfterable with eating & him eat more than one meal a day?