please help me..

katiie · 10-01-2010, 12:37 AM

okay im going to start from the very beguinning, i met my ex at the air cadets he was an adult member of staff who is 38 and i was 17 now 18, we got together and he was going to teach me rugby and we went back to his and gave me a drink of vodka and the next when was straight vodka..so i got drunk and i came onto him, and he took me upstairs... when i was 17 and we lied about it till i was 18, and we been together for 3 months but he had a drinking problem, and he used to turn violent and belittle me all the time he knows about my problems and i have trouble eating so he calls me fat and slasher and impervious child, and i never stood to him i darnt.
He used to say threats saying hes going to get someone to kill my mum and all that, now new yrs day i ended it and he hasnt stopped bothering me we have contacted the police about the death threats. Now he is pretending to be his sister and saying that hes in hospital of a bad head injury and the drs said hes not going to last, and hes still txtin me as his sister and saying how horrible i am and how its all my fault because i was out 2 nights ago and he came down to the taxi rank and luckily i was with my mates and he was still nasty and violent but i was looked after.

I just dont know how to cope its getting to the point that its getting way too much for me to handle and i dont know how to address it wether the police can do something or my mental health nurse and consultant can do something i dont know, i just need support or any advice would be amazing! thanks.. x

katiie · 10-01-2010, 12:58 AM

iv been to evey forum and no ones helping me :( i thought icould get advice :(

Jinxi · 10-01-2010, 01:20 AM

can't really offer much i'm afraid. think you're just going to have to trust in the police to do their job. you're not the first person to find yourself in this situation, so there must be some course of action for them to follow. to keep you and your family safe. also i don't know how your relationship is with your family, but do they know they are potentially in danger?

perhaps talking to your support team could be worthwhile to see if there's a way of making it less stressful for you in any way so you can get on with your life.

hope it works out somehow!