it certainly could be part of BPD. when you have BPD it can be scary if you think someone's going to leave you, you're going to be rejected/abandoned. it can make you feel really insecure. also sometimes you might feel paranoid and angry.
but there again, a lot of so-called "normal" people (i am not saying BPD is not normal, but ya know what i mean!) would also feel jealous and insecure about a partner's ex coming. i think it depends a lot on how open you can be with each other. it might help to discuss your concerns with him? without accusing him of anything, obviously! just say how it makes you feel, maybe.
also, if there are other people you can talk to about it, and your concerns that it might be part of your BPD and what past things/feelings it might relate to, that could be helpful too.
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