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Life Improvement
[center]Ok, very long story made long...
I had child at 17.. (I died giving birth for like 20 mins) Her father died 2 years later(he was my middle school sweetheart) My parents didn't believe in being an adult at 17 or what not and they swear up and down that I'm to young to be a mother. They still treated me like a child and wanted control over my life. It was so bad they took me to child custody services where I signed my rights over (worst day of my life, I try to commit suicide twice, cause of this) I was put on visitation and couldn't live in the same home as my daughter due to court orders (which left me homeless)
2 add: My young adult years, I was looking for love and closure in the wrong places I ran into a guy who physically abused me as well as mentally and emotionally
Also: I always provide financially (I give her my last) for my daughter I sign her up for school, etc
Fast forward I'm 25 right now I have a really great relationship with my daughter, I actually live with my parents(going against court orders) my parents are financially troubled living with a relative of my moms, just so I can be with my daughter... My parents especially my mother and I can not get along. ( I brought them a car gave my mother money everything and yet she says I don't provide nothing for my child or family)
Currently I'm dating this guy I knew for a couple of years who is in the military (heaven sent he saved me from that abusive relationship I had) and owns his own business(which he made me apart of) he is a sweet kind hearted guy who knows my situation and love my daughter like his own... He brought me a vehicle to aid in taking my daughter to school, he helped me get 2 part-time jobs for the time being.
He wants to take it to the next level he ask my hand in marriage, and wants me to move in with him due to his contract he has to stay stationed at base and wants me closer to him...
Now here's the thing, I love him I am ready to start a family with him and the whole 9, my daughter approved of it... But now my mother says I'm a b*tch and a whore saying I'm abandoning my child for a man or whatever which isn't the case (I was going to take legal action once I get settled and have everything in order to get my child back) but it really hurts me to hear things like that... Now I'm torn from if I should finally leave the bird nest to start something great or dwell and be miserable with my parents?
P.S my father apologized for going along with my mother and putting me through this and he said he wants to see me happy, cause he said he helped steal my happiness years ago...
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