in a tight spot

[csu.claire]

hay
so i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and for the past 7 months i have been living at uni and that's when i got into self harming and he was very judgmental when i started and makes me feel like a little kid when i have told him i have slipped up.

and since the end of july in my opinion our relationship has just gone down hill and i no longer love him, but i know he still loved me greatly and i just don't know what to do.

then to add matters worse i have developed feelings for another guy but i know nothing will ever happen with that and atm he isn't even speaking to me.

with all my emotions running wild i am constantly feeling depressed and triggered as i have no idea what to do

[marieqoza]

Have you told about your feelings and emotions ith your boyfriend? If you don't love him anymore you should end the relationship. Even though he might still love you, he won't be happy with it if you aren't.

[Delephynite]

I think you need to sit down somewhere quiet and have a long hard think about this. If you no longer love your boyfriend then stringing him along isn't good for either of you. Although it's hard in the long run you'll both benefit in breaking up.

You need to ask yourself some questions, even write two lists; what's positive about this relationship & what's negative? Is there anything you can both do to change and fix this relationship? Do you want to try and fix this relationship?

[PassedExpectations]

how are you doing? i hope that you're ok...