^ but she's said that they weren't boyfriend/girlfriend. They were seeing each other, which puts it in this grey area, and it's totally understandable why she's so confused.
It's also totally understandable that you're upset by this. While you weren't actually together, you liked this guy, and not only have you been hurt by him, your friend has also hurt you - she knew you were seeing each other, and yet she still kissed him. I think it's important to talk to her about how you feel, because you said that she finds it funny, which isn't fair. Sit her down, and get it all out.
It's completely up to you what you want to do with him at this point. I know that's no decent advice, but it's the best I can give. Think about what you want from this - do you want just a summer fling, or do you want a relationship? If you do want a relationship, I'm going to point out that while relationships with someone back home can work while you're at uni, I'm actually in one, trust is so so important. In a long distance relationship, it's more important than in a close-by one. And if he's kissed your friend, can you really trust him?
If you just want a summer fling, then you want to end up as friends with this guy, then maybe it's best to just leave it. Kissing her doesn't seem to be a big deal to him, and trying to get him to understand how you're feeling could make things a little awkward between you, after you're friends...
I don't know. Hope this was some sort of help?
- Tre x
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