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-Krysta 10-05-2009 11:43 PM

A good rule you have!
 
I really like your rule of not letting people say they are going to do something dangerous, I have visited sites like this before where that kind of thing happens and I cant deal with it because you cant help, what if they stop replying and stuff, i cant deal with that at all, thanks for not letting that happen. it is better for everyone this way and i dont have to worry.

:hop:

griddlebone 10-05-2009 11:49 PM

Im glad you like that rule :) its good to hear.x

Sometimes Crazy 10-05-2009 11:50 PM

This is so cute :3

Vegetarian Vampire 10-05-2009 11:54 PM

Awhh.
Good stuff.

one_step_closer 11-05-2009 04:42 PM

I agree, it keeps the atmosphere supportive and prevents distress to a certain degree.

PropheticStar 11-05-2009 06:33 PM

Oh, what a lovely post :)

Welcome to RYL Krysta!

blondiebear 12-05-2009 03:24 AM

I also appreciate that drugs and drug use can not be glamorised or encouraged. That keeps it safe for me.

The War Doctor 12-05-2009 03:43 AM

Awh.:) I'm glad you like that rule... I like it too; I'd get so stressed if someone suddenly told me they were about to overdose or something, leaving me completely helpless and wondering if they're okay... it's happened to me before (but not on here). Welcome to RYL. :)

Isoverity 12-05-2009 04:11 AM

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Originally Posted by -Krysta (Post 1609915)
I really like your rule of not letting people say they are going to do something dangerous, I have visited sites like this before where that kind of thing happens and I cant deal with it because you cant help, what if they stop replying and stuff, i cant deal with that at all, thanks for not letting that happen. it is better for everyone this way and i dont have to worry.

:hop:

I remember what RYL was like before this policy and it wasn't pretty. A person would post their "intentions", get a lot of replies - and then 10 others would do the same things. People got exhausted and morbid trying to keep up with things and it didn't work out at all.

Isoverity 12-05-2009 01:31 PM

Depends on if you consider suicide/OD's "dangerous". People used to post goodbye notes, their planned OD's etc. In fact there was quite a fuss when posting goodbye notes, descriptions of suicidal intentions were dropped. It was terrible stress on kids before that though. If something more recent happened and caused a stir then that's maybe a good sign because I have seen lots of those upsetting type threads in the past but not lately.

Dreamofunity 12-05-2009 07:58 PM

Rules are lame!@#!@@*!&@^%^!~~

PropheticStar 12-05-2009 09:00 PM

Oh Colin, you love the rules, just admit it! :p

Dreamofunity 15-05-2009 03:51 AM

You can talk about drug use in reference to Portugal. Just reference Portugal anytime you want to glamorize drugs. The rule states you can't "share anything that discusses, encourages or condones illegal activity" where as drugs in Portugal are decriminalized.

Cocaine is good, in Portugal.

**** YEAH LOOPHOLES!

Dreamofunity 15-05-2009 04:03 AM

"Discussion of anything that is against the law in your country is prohibited."

****, I should have read it all. This may stop my loophole unless I move to Portugal. I think as long as you actually reference Portugal is should still be allowed, or change the rule to "do not talk about drugs" and drop the illegal mention, but then caffeine encouragement is banned. I think the "in your country" clause is lame. A british member could talk about drinking at 18 while being 3 months away from 21 it would not be allowed for me to comment.

Dreamofunity 15-05-2009 04:06 AM

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Originally Posted by PropheticStar (Post 1614142)
Oh Colin, you love the rules, just admit it! :p

Never.

They're so arbitrary, as exampled above.

user_name 15-05-2009 04:24 AM

Colin, you are such a grumpy old man :)

BTW, I might just go and have a drink...it being legal and all.

PropheticStar 15-05-2009 10:52 AM

Ah, but there IS a rule about encouraging and glamourising drug use.

PropheticStar 15-05-2009 10:53 AM

And the rules aren't just for shits and giggles. There's a good reason for all of them. They may not apply to real life, but they are certainly relevant for RYL.

Dreamofunity 15-05-2009 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by PropheticStar (Post 1619589)
Ah, but there IS a rule about encouraging and glamourising drug use.

Only illegal ones, which stands to question Portugals decriminalization.

Quote:

Originally Posted by PropheticStar (Post 1619592)
And the rules aren't just for shits and giggles. There's a good reason for all of them. They may not apply to real life, but they are certainly relevant for RYL.

I know, which is why for the most part I follow them even if I personally disagree with them. I'm just ****ing around, I like being difficult. :)

PropheticStar 15-05-2009 05:15 PM

I know. Sorry love, wasn't trying to have a go. I wouldn't have really said shits and giggles if I was being 100% serious myself :p


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