im becoming a new person
 

everytime i have some sort of shock the best way of dealing with it is by dreaming of a better me, dreaming of a me that fits perfectly with everyone elses thoughts. so i can effect the next soldier that comes to tackle me.....
my last shock was being backstabbed by the friends i thought loved me. and to add to the flavour i met a young child who is only 4 and seems like he knows what this world has instore for him.

all thats left for me is to completely change my innerself again, but this time i feel fantastic. simply because im getting better. no drink, fatty foods, and look after myself tenfold.

or am i?

This is a really dumb and unhelpful reply probably but what you wrote reminded me of part of a song by Suzanne Vega:

But the only soldier now is me
I'm fighting things I cannot see
I think it's called my destiny
That I am changing

Sorry :sad:

cool! at least somebody replied. that wasnt dumb at all i love it when people share their opinions

it sounds like you are setting yourself goals to improve your life, this article may of interest to you, its all about personal goal setting to achieve your goals and objectives giving you a new direction in life.

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I saw your voice come in at the end. The little voice that gets to us all. It is so great that you want to make you happier. Focusing on you is a great thing.But remember,that little voice is going to be there. You have to fight through it the best you can. And you might take steps back,but don't let it throw you off.

go you!

Hugs....your doing great

It's really great to hear that you're so positive! Good luck with everything!
Kiran
xx

right on.