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Stellata 21-10-2008 07:19 PM

can I have some hugs and caring please?
 
I'm exploring how things were for me as a teenager, in therapy at the moment - and how I can fill the gaps of what I didn't have then, now, to some degree.

I'm writing a diary of a typical day from when I was around 15.
It's important to me to do this.

But it's so damn sad.

Can I have a hug?

Ratatouille strychnine 21-10-2008 07:24 PM

*hugs you tight* It's hard but I know you can do this. I'm sorry your past was so hurt.

phoenixflames_forever 21-10-2008 07:31 PM

*cuddles you tight* thats a brave thing to do i really hope it helps :)
*extra hug* xxxx

Becca 21-10-2008 08:59 PM

~lots and lots of hugs~

irkeninvader 21-10-2008 09:32 PM

*sends you some hugs*

Casper_Fading 21-10-2008 09:44 PM

*leaves a box of cuddles there for you whenever you need them*

ickle 21-10-2008 11:10 PM

~ sending you lots of hugs ~

risenfromperdition 22-10-2008 04:39 AM

*sends as many cuddles as possible*
<3

Rain Keeper 22-10-2008 07:01 AM

*snuggles huggles and love*
Rain

Stellata 22-10-2008 08:46 AM

Thanks everyone.

I feel really really sad [and rightly so], and kind of ... weird this morning. Not sure how to describe it, rather like when you've opened up a box that's been closed for years, even though you've a good idea what's in it, you don't dare open it and look at everything that's inside... until now.

effervescence 22-10-2008 08:52 AM

certainly you can have a hug. *hugs*
i know how it feels to open up those types of boxes.
i'm glad you're doing something constructive in therapy.

one_step_closer 22-10-2008 02:46 PM

*massive hugs* I hope doing this is helpful for you. I'm here any time.

Cazki 22-10-2008 03:26 PM

*Gives you a big cuddle* I hope that what your doing is helpful to you.

Take care best wishes Ian

Stellata 22-10-2008 03:58 PM

Thank you.
It is helping.
It's uncomfortable though.

Misunderstood. 22-10-2008 04:50 PM

It sounds really painful what you're working at in therapy at the moment. I think you are very brave for 'opening the box' so to speak.
cuddel

phoenixflames_forever 22-10-2008 07:19 PM

*huggles you again* xxxx

Trucktastic 22-10-2008 10:12 PM

Hugs!

Like people have said opening old boxes (wounds) is really difficult, and takes a lot of courage.

Take care

Loz xx

phoenixflames_forever 22-10-2008 10:30 PM

*wanders in again to give you another random squish*

ThinkingofRecovery 22-10-2008 10:34 PM

*Drops by and leaves a few mor hugs to ensure you don't run out*

How you doing?

Stellata 23-10-2008 07:53 AM

Thank you everyone.

I'm feeling a bit.. washed out? this morning. Like I'm in a well or on a raft in the middle of a large ocean. I'm not sure. Trying to surface.


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