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Old 21-10-2008, 07:19 PM   #1
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can I have some hugs and caring please?

I'm exploring how things were for me as a teenager, in therapy at the moment - and how I can fill the gaps of what I didn't have then, now, to some degree.

I'm writing a diary of a typical day from when I was around 15.
It's important to me to do this.

But it's so damn sad.

Can I have a hug?
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Old 21-10-2008, 07:24 PM   #2
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*hugs you tight* It's hard but I know you can do this. I'm sorry your past was so hurt.




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Old 21-10-2008, 07:31 PM   #3
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*cuddles you tight* thats a brave thing to do i really hope it helps :)
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Wish i could tie you up in my shoes....make you feel unpretty too...
Take these sunken eyes and learn to see......
You're still here in my heart.

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Old 21-10-2008, 08:59 PM   #4
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Old 21-10-2008, 09:32 PM   #5
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Old 21-10-2008, 09:44 PM   #6
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Old 21-10-2008, 11:10 PM   #7
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Old 22-10-2008, 04:39 AM   #8
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Old 22-10-2008, 07:01 AM   #9
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Old 22-10-2008, 08:46 AM   #10
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Thanks everyone.

I feel really really sad [and rightly so], and kind of ... weird this morning. Not sure how to describe it, rather like when you've opened up a box that's been closed for years, even though you've a good idea what's in it, you don't dare open it and look at everything that's inside... until now.
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Old 22-10-2008, 08:52 AM   #11
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certainly you can have a hug. *hugs*
i know how it feels to open up those types of boxes.
i'm glad you're doing something constructive in therapy.


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Old 22-10-2008, 02:46 PM   #12
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*massive hugs* I hope doing this is helpful for you. I'm here any time.




I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.

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Old 22-10-2008, 03:26 PM   #13
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*Gives you a big cuddle* I hope that what your doing is helpful to you.

Take care best wishes Ian


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Old 22-10-2008, 03:58 PM   #14
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Thank you.
It is helping.
It's uncomfortable though.
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Old 22-10-2008, 04:50 PM   #15
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It sounds really painful what you're working at in therapy at the moment. I think you are very brave for 'opening the box' so to speak.
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Old 22-10-2008, 07:19 PM   #16
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*huggles you again* xxxx


Wish i could tie you up in my shoes....make you feel unpretty too...
Take these sunken eyes and learn to see......
You're still here in my heart.

I gots lei'd in vets
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Old 22-10-2008, 10:12 PM   #17
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Hugs!

Like people have said opening old boxes (wounds) is really difficult, and takes a lot of courage.

Take care

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Old 22-10-2008, 10:30 PM   #18
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Wish i could tie you up in my shoes....make you feel unpretty too...
Take these sunken eyes and learn to see......
You're still here in my heart.

I gots lei'd in vets
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Old 22-10-2008, 10:34 PM   #19
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Old 23-10-2008, 07:53 AM   #20
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Thank you everyone.

I'm feeling a bit.. washed out? this morning. Like I'm in a well or on a raft in the middle of a large ocean. I'm not sure. Trying to surface.
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