really pissed at myself
 

well done bec:thumbup:
you've gone and done it.
all these years of trying to do yourself in and you've gone and done it , and now you have to live with it.
Constant pain, at least until the surgery. Spine doesn't appreciate being thrown off tall structures- you'd think that'd be obvious, but its not something you really think about at the time.
I've been doing ok. Not self injured for a while, but i'm flirting with the old friend again. I think the problem persists that i don't have another coping mechanism. its either all or nothing. and ye, i drink , i smoke, but its all one in the same to me, its never about having a good time.
my back is in a mess. needs surgery to fix, can be fixed so its not the end of the world, but , i do risk paralysis in getting the surgery.
Also have to go in for another op on my teeth. Years of abuse did them no favours.
I often feel a lot older than i am, but realistically i'm 20.
20, looking at potential paralysis, and dentures, not to mention all of the other ****, before you get to the psychological side of things.

so...i'm feeling down. woe is me and all that jack. don't even know why i'm posting when its more of a whine than anything. i just feel very lonely in all of this. isolated.
i don't even know whats been keeping me going the last few months, i've not really been with it , and if i try to think back, i can't say i really remember a lot of it ....
i've kind of lost my muse now so i'm gonna shush...take care all and, again, thanks for listening:notsure:

hey

just read your post. i'm sorry i dont have many words at the mo either. make sure you look out for yourself.

take care

Bec,

I'm not in a good place myself but wanted to say I hope it goes well for you.

Another Bec ;-)

Even though I'm older, I understand what probs can do to the body. I believe that my bad ankle is a result of my obesity.

Rant as much as you need to.
hugs

I'm sorry you're going through a hard time. I'll read any rants you want to post *hugs*

my sweet Becci....
im so sorry.
i think about you so much.
i still have that beautiful letter you sent me over a year ago.
i love you with all my heart.
i just dont know what to say...im sorry.
please be as safe as you can and always KNOW we love you girl.
*oodles of snuggles*
love you bunches.
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