new-ish here and lonely
 

hi

just somewhere to vent really. have used this site before, found it very helpfull.

i'm married now, but feel so lonely at times, and trapped. i have a totally different lifestyle now, and miss the old one so much. i feel like i've betrayed myself but leaving my old way of life. i feel like my wife is driving out the old me, and it bloody hurts. my wife has chronic fatiuge whichmakes her sleep for days sometimes.

i dont have any friends here, i've left them behind. i have a great job and just got promoted, but i still feel empty, and sad all the time.

sorry for the rant.

sorry to hear you're feeling low and lonely right now
i don't have many words at the moment, but i hear you
please take care of you and share all you need x

What part of you is being driven away? How have you betrayed yourself?

I know what it is like to be lonely even when you are married. I've been there too. It has taken years of work for us to make things better.

Please, talk to us? Let us know how we might help? If nothing else, I'm here to listen.

Oh yeah welcome to RYL and to vets.

hey, sorry you're feeling this way...if you need to talk i'm on for a while

Why do you feel your wife is driving out the old you? Have you spoken to her about the way you feel? I hope you find the help you need here

How are you doing now?

Hey there and welcome,

{hugs}
You're never alone here.
Catherine xxxx