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Ami 01-08-2008 08:18 AM

A & E (quick answers appreciated)
 
okay, the bf wants to take me to a and e today cos im apparently getting worse and im a danger.

what happens when you go? I really dont want to go and im scared of if they take me in or tell me to piss off home.

Thanks xx

loopylucy08 01-08-2008 08:42 AM

Ok, basically you'll be assessed by the duty psych. They'll ask you much the same questions that you'd be asked at any first mental health appointment- a bit about you, your background, your family, medical history etc. The course of action will really depend on
1. The risk assessment of you. Do they think that the risk you present with can be managed sufficiently in the community or does it require a period in hospital?
2. Whether and what support you are recieving from the community team if indeed you already have some kind of intervention arranged.

They will be looking to manage your risk in a way which is in your best interests while taking you views into account. It may be that they contact the Home Treatment team and ask them to give you support. They may review the medication you are on or look at ways of getting you more support in the community. Or you could be admitted.

I really think if your boyfriend is worried and if you are unsafe then going to the hospital would be advisable. What it indicates to them is that one way or another you are not getting enough/any/the right sort of support that you need right now and so it will give them the opportunity to make changes to this so that you recieve more of the help that you need.

Good luck!
xxx

Ami 01-08-2008 08:44 AM

Thanks thats very helpful

i just dont wanna be admitted though :/

xx

loopylucy08 01-08-2008 09:01 AM

Doctors do not like admitting people if they can help it. There is an increasing emphasis on community care- the long and short of it probably is that the NHS is finacillay screwed and it is a lot more expensive for them to keep someone in a psych hospital than to treat them in the community I would imagine! Also it benefits the person more in many cases- after all, no one likes going into hospital, be that psych or otherwise.

It might help if you were able to have some suggestions to hand of ways you felt they could help keep you safer in the community. The psychiatrist will take your opinions on board and the fact that you are self presenting prior to acting on any impulses to harm yourself will certainly go in your favour because it shows you have the capacit to recognise these feelings and say "I want help and support to stop them before they get out of control and someone has to go against my wishes". But Im afraid no one can rule out the possibility of your being admitted.

Ami 01-08-2008 09:08 AM

Okay thanks a lot .. going soon xx

loopylucy08 01-08-2008 09:10 AM

Good luck! Let us know how it goes. xx

Ami 01-08-2008 11:30 AM

change of plan. theyre trying to get me to see a psych at camhs x

x-dying-inside-x 01-08-2008 12:45 PM

i hope it all goes on hunny.

missmandy2009 01-08-2008 01:13 PM

camhs are good huni i see 1 of their psychs every 2 weeks and they really help

Shenanigans 01-08-2008 01:34 PM

*cuddles*
Good luck hun, I hope things get better

Ami 01-08-2008 02:14 PM

possibily going in hosp :/

Shenanigans 01-08-2008 04:08 PM

*snuggles* whatever happens hun try and remember that it is in your best intentions.
You're in my thoughts hun, take care of yourself
Xxxx

88shelz 01-08-2008 06:19 PM

ami if you need to talk you know whre iam.
well done for doing the right thing.
if you need to be in hospital sweetie then go for it.
it will help you while you are a risk to yourself xx


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