advice needed-doesnt really fit in support
 

i think ive messed things up a bit with my bf- i worry and analyse things too much and its starting to give him with the impression that im not happy and that i dont trust him or really know him.

ive explained to him loads of times the reasons behind it, but it doesnt change the effect its having. and i know id be the same if he kept questioning me all the time- id be like does he actually want a reason to break up with me.

so i need advice and stuff from anyone whose been in such a situation or just has an opinion. how do you stop yourself from worrying so much- or at least train yourself to think before you open your mouth (cos half the time i do that i realise there isnt actually anything to worry about).

and also what could i do to show him that i dont mean to have that effect and that i am happy with him? cos other than talking i cant think of anything else and talkings what made this mess in the first place =/

Can you analyse things for yourself in private? Talk to a girlfriend about it, or even to us? Take some time and journal too.

I overanalyse things too.

*hugs you*