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Feel_Good_inc. 29-12-2011 01:32 AM

entering 2012 single?
 
Who else is single at the end of 2011?
The following content has been hidden - Reason : ignore this nonsense
I realised a few minutes ago that it really has been three years since I've had anyone in any way.
I know it's my fault because I don't go out more than a couple of times a year and when I do I'm usually too shy to talk to anyone. either that or i don't think they look like my type. Yeah, i judge by appearance. any sign of fake tan or a push up hair-do and I don't think they're my type. I prefer someone with intelligence and culture and learning and interests beyond katie price's reality show and the only way is essex. if they look like a character from the only way is essex; I avoid them.

i prefer someone who reads, someone who is maybe a little bit of a geek but just someone who is odd in some way and doesn't mind being not what society considers "normal"

I'm rambling.

It really doesn't matter what my type is because I'm always too nervous to talk to anyone. I don't know what to say and, lets face it, i just don't think I have any qualities anyone would want. I'm just not worth anyone's time. I can't be what anyone would want. People have standards after all.
I think i've found the subject of my next therapy session. All the progress I've made and I still have a road block when it comes to relationships. or even just talking to someone.


Just curious as to how many are starting 2012 without a bf/gf?
How many are fine being single?
Or how many, like me, wish they had someone?

I'll probably be single at the end of 2012 too, unless a miracle happens.

Lou Lou 29-12-2011 01:38 AM

me. Single. Was fine with it until a stupid boy appeared that STILL isn't mine lol. Damnit.

But never mind. Here's to being lucky in love in 2012 *fingers crossed*

griddlebone 29-12-2011 01:44 AM

Me.Not happy about it. Forever alone! D:

Also, you will find someone Im sure! :] xx

Rhuben 29-12-2011 01:44 AM

Doesn't bother me, I don't like people all that much and find them thoroughly irritating the majority of the time. I was in a relationship for 3 years and was glad when it ended because I don't like unwanted intrusions into my personal affairs. Clingy people especially really annoy me, I can quite happily go for weeks without speaking to another person.

The War Doctor 29-12-2011 01:45 AM

Single, as usual. The only year that I haven't entered single was 2008. I really am sick of not having someone.

On.My.Way 29-12-2011 01:46 AM

I'm entering it single, the person I like is too blind to notice so here's to another year starting it single. Only ever been one year when I've not been single on new years...

chesterlily88 29-12-2011 01:48 AM

Don't feel too bad, I haven't been with anybody in about 7 1/2 years...if that one even counted.

So yes, I am single and will be single. I'm not sure if I should even want someone...since that wouldn't be fair. I'm finished trying to make friends or going out of my way to meet people. And in the end is it even worth it? (it wasn't before really).

GlitterTrashDoll 29-12-2011 02:23 AM

I'm entering 2012 single.
DISLIKE.
I want a boything.
I want to steal their hoodies and trackies and cuddles. D:

Feel_Good_inc. 29-12-2011 02:25 AM

^ I could live with that arrangement.

I have a couple of nice hoodies too. and a few pairs of trackies.

The War Doctor 29-12-2011 02:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Feel_Good_inc. (Post 3083286)
^ I could live with that arrangement.

I have a couple of nice hoodies too. and a few pairs of trackies.

Clearly RecoverYourLover.com is still alive and well.

Rubik'sCube 29-12-2011 02:46 AM

^ So do I. Definitely, even better than chocolate

__T 29-12-2011 02:53 AM

Yep.
Does it bother me?
Abit.

griddlebone 29-12-2011 03:00 AM

cuddles are awesome.

I want someone to bake for.

Im such a housewife ¬_¬ x

wearethesea 29-12-2011 03:06 AM

Feel Good Inc,

Tried hanging out at the local coffee shops with a book, maybe your journal?
I did it, just to keep myself from isolating, and while I had a lot of guys troll me about the size of my rack, I kept doing it, and finally, someone asked me out. twas nice. He's a nerd, and I love it.

Try it, it may just work out.
Good luck.
*huggles*

LemonTangWang 29-12-2011 03:17 AM

Single, le woe be Mike.

Reki 29-12-2011 03:24 AM

I'm also single... and I don't know if it bothers me or not.
I like to think it doesn't. But sometimes I get very lonely and I wish I had someone. It's my fault that I'm single though... I don't go out often and I don't think I can trust people. So I guess I'll just stay alone for another while.

chesterlily88 29-12-2011 03:27 AM

Man, I don't even know what cuddles are really like...

Maybe I should just stay single so I never know what i'm missing? Just kidding—I think.

And what coffee shops are you going to? I've never gotten comments at a coffee shop...in fact I'm almost invisible in public places despite the way I look. Go figure.

GlitterTrashDoll 29-12-2011 03:53 AM

SOMEONE GIVE ME CUDDLES DAMNIT.
and giant clothes to sleep in >:(

__T 29-12-2011 03:56 AM

Will XXXL do? :P

wearethesea 29-12-2011 03:56 AM

Chesterlily : Hastings is where I go.


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