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EyelinerAndCigarettes 04-04-2011 09:39 PM

My dad just tried to break in
 
Please. Help. Me.
My dad, he's drunk, he just turned up in a acab. he rang me & said 'helen can you hear that car coming round the corner?.. thats me in a taxi, im going in now. let me in helen. i'm going to rip your fucking head off'
im shaking
pettrified
i had to lock all the doors & shout at him through the window till he left
my mums out to get electric
fuck
help?
i want to die.
hes going to come back & hes going to hurt me, im scared :crying:

whirlpools 04-04-2011 09:41 PM

Please call the police, Helen. *Hugs*.

Emo 04-04-2011 09:42 PM

Call the police hunni and keep ypur doors and windows locked
I know you are very scared right now ... please get help

high.hopes 04-04-2011 09:45 PM

Stay strong and keep breathing...
One step at a time.

You can do this...



Kia, <3

roiben 04-04-2011 10:06 PM

I hope you are able to call the police. Can you also call your Mum or a neighbour and let them know what has happened.

Roiben x

EyelinerAndCigarettes 04-04-2011 10:14 PM

hes gone, mum just came back, she locked everything (i locked most but one door is too big >.<) im just so shocked & anxitey everywhere & ahh. :crying: *clings*

ghosts in the machine 04-04-2011 10:16 PM

Make a note of this incident, so that if in the future you need to provide evidence that this is ongoing harrassement you'll have details for the police already.

I'm glad your mum's back safely.

not_so_insig 04-04-2011 10:17 PM

I am glad that your Mum has come back and locked the doors.

If that happens again, I would just not answer the door. If your dad does not go away or becomes a nuisance, I would phone the police. At the end of the day, even though he is your dad, if he is being abusive, that is the best course of action.

insidemyhead 04-04-2011 10:19 PM

I just wanted to give you a big big *hug* ist not good he's doing this to you, im glad your mum is home and i agree that you should make note or ring the police *hugs some more* im thinking of you xx

Sleepless123 04-04-2011 10:48 PM

im so sorry that he behaved like that towards you Hel.It must have been so scary.

What your Dad said and did was really wrong.You are being really brave and i hope you feel at least a bit safer now your Mums back.

Hel if you dont mind me asking was there any indication your fear might behave like this in any way?Has anything happened [not that anything happening would make it ok but i just wondered]?Has he behaved like this before at all?i understand if you dont want to answer.

Thinking of you.

xx

EyelinerAndCigarettes 04-04-2011 11:15 PM

He's always been a 'drinker' & aggressive & sometimes viloint & also suffers from mental health difficulties, along with my mum (which doesn't help), (they've also broken up for a year & he now has a new family with a new fiancée.)

talaiporia 05-04-2011 03:22 AM

Oh *huggles*. That must have been very scary. What does his new finacee think about this? You mentioned 'family' - are there children involved? Are they safe with him?

I understand what you must be going through - my dad was abusive too, and liked his drink, but it's important to remember that you're safe now. If he comes back, or you have any more trouble, don't hesitate to call the police. They're there to help you.

BridgesAndBalloons 05-04-2011 03:13 PM

^ I agree, you'd be well within your rights to call the police for help.

How are you feeling today?

NeverBetter 06-04-2011 09:46 AM

just wanna say massive hugs sorry you had to exspierece somethink that frightened you
i agree what has been said above


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