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thegirlnextdoor 16-03-2011 09:03 AM

Need Advice
 
My question is: How do I cover up fresh cuts without using a jacket or a mass of bracelets?

It had been 3 years since I last cut and I relapsed last night. I now have scars up and down both arms because I wasn't thinking when it happened. None of my methods from before will work now because I am a much "happier and bubblier" person than I was then. I know a lot of people say to use makeup, but I don't use makeup so don't own any, and it's hard to use make up to cover up fresh ones.

I can't let any of my friends or professors know about this, so I desperately need to figure out a way to hide them.

PassedExpectations 16-03-2011 11:55 AM

makeup on fresh cuts is a bad idea. i know you know that, but i just wanted to point it out for others...

put your arm in a sling? though then you've got to make up something to explain that, and that would be a huge hassle.... i would just go with long sleeves myself

crazykat 16-03-2011 12:03 PM

you could put a bandage on it and say you strained a muscle or something other than that can you maybe get a lighter long sleeve top to wear

Wish Upon a Star 16-03-2011 01:02 PM

A long sleeve top would work, or a hoodie. I live in my hoodies anyway so no one ever questions it.

chinahorse 16-03-2011 03:18 PM

Long sleeve tops, cardigans, shirts open over t-shirts, hoodies and elbow length gloves work well it all depends on your style really. I wear long tops underneath most of my outfits. And the 'I sunburn easily' excuse work really well!

http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...=cover+up+tips
This thread had loads of ideas.
(copy and paste if it doesn't work)

lonely_hope 16-03-2011 08:06 PM

First, it's great you went 3 years! That is really amazing :) You're doing a wonderful job in recovering :)

Sometimes I just put a band-aid on a cut and if people ask, maybe say my cat scratched me, tripped and scraped my arm, or was cooking and got burnt. I really don't like telling stories like that, but it's kept me from getting so many strange looks :/

I really hope you're doing alright :) Send a PM if you want to talk

*hugs and love*

effyx 16-03-2011 08:39 PM

Cardigans work best for me, they're light enough to not look TOO out of place it its fairly warm

teenalstyle 18-03-2011 04:22 PM

Its life for some of us
 
se bandaids and say you got hurt like by riding a bike or something
thats how i did it & it kinda helped;-)


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