*Adult*- Does anyone else...
 

Really hate penetration?
I thought it was perfectly normal to, until someone brought to my attention that it wasn't.
Background, I'm a lesbian, 24, sexually active... just really dislike it. In all forms, by anything.
Anyone else?

I'm not a lesbian, but I hate it too. Maybe not for the same reasons. Do you have a steady girlfriend? If so, have you shared this with her or do you share it with other partners in advance?

I've been there..Still like that to a point..

Actual him going in i arent keen on though once his 'inside' then am okay :)

heyy,
Im a lesbian also and im really not in to penitration of anysort, it freaks me out ( probably due to my history) but my gf is really understand with it, she just does other things instead, it took me a while to be comfortable to penitrate her, but its what she likes so im comfortable with it now.
Pm me if u want to talk atall x

Thanks for the replies, was feeling a bit freaked out.

I have told my gf, think she would like to sometimes but there's just no point doing something i hate...
i've let other girls do it before but i just find the whole thing uncomfortable and upsetting.

i dunno...

yeah my partner has said she would like to, ive tried it id say 2/3 times but not enjoyed it at the time and afterwards felt even worse, theres plenty of other things you can do so dont panic about it, i dont think its weird atall and know other gay friends who arnt in to penitration x

yeah, we do the other things :)
glad you know other people who feel like that... been feeling generally a bit weird. x

I've never been in a sexual relationship. Partly because of terror about penetration. For me it's a boundaries issue, as I've never been sexually abused.

no your not weird :) your partner obv cares about u, so just take your time, u never no one day u may want to experiment with it but until then as long as she knows thats cool :)
Pm me if u need to talk about anything xxx