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EpicFailGirl 22-04-2010 01:45 PM

the right word to use
 
so, when a cut is open or fresh, its a cut.

and scars are the permanant mark left behind afterwards, though not always, and take years to fade, and are mostly white.

so if i've got a cut, and it heals, but its not a scar yet, what is it?

because RYL is all like, no pics of cuts, and tag *scars visible* if you post a pic where you can see a scar. far do's, and i have scars that are yeahs old from falling off a skateboard etc. im looking at my healed cuts, and i dont know if i can take a picture of my badly drawn butterfly for the butterfly project, to show how bad i draw with my left hand and that i managed to wait long enough to draw a butterfly, because they arent cuts anymore, but they definately arent scars yet. i dont think theyll scar. i hope not, lol.

so yeah. whats the word for the marks of a closed and healing cut, that isnt a scar, and can i take a picture of this butterfly because its HILARIOUS. no shouting at me, please. ive had enough of "these are the rules and you are bad" type stuff.

88shelz 22-04-2010 02:44 PM

its up to you to decide if you think it is a triggering picture and if it is put a trigger warning on it...if the mods arent happy then they will remove it

Zeitgeist 22-04-2010 05:16 PM

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Bleeding Angel 22-04-2010 05:20 PM

You could edit the pic as well if you think that would be better.

griddlebone 22-04-2010 06:23 PM

I think it would probably still be classed as a fresh cut.

Amaryllis 22-04-2010 10:28 PM

I would call it a wound probably.

Snow White. 22-04-2010 11:00 PM

I think perhaps it's still going to be quite triggering, therefore inappropriate, therefore removed. Perhaps you could draw your butterfly somewhere else where there isn't a scar and take a photo of it there?

EpicFailGirl 23-04-2010 10:47 AM

The butterfly project said to draw it where you cut to discourage you.

Thanks though, I won't show you my appalling drawing, no worries XD

Bleeding Angel 24-04-2010 11:38 PM

Like i said you can edit it and cover up the scars, alot of people do that.

EpicFailGirl 25-04-2010 11:33 AM

theyre not really scars. i dont really scar visibly, im pretty pale. theyre kinda more like healed cuts.

but its not like i NEED to show people my bad drawing, it was just an amusing aside, and im not gonna do a million things to post one pic XD its a grey area, so ill just avoid it in case.

Stellata 25-04-2010 11:36 AM

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Healing wound?


Animad 25-04-2010 11:41 PM

A cut which has totally healed over regardless of the colour is a scar. A cut that hasn't is either a fresh/ open/ healing cut (or wound) or a scab. Scars aren't necessarily white; many are pink or even red

Alone and Scared 26-04-2010 02:02 PM

I find that photos' can be easily edited. :-)

EpicFailGirl 26-04-2010 09:53 PM

by now the butterflies have faded away. 1 week free =]

Freedom Fighter 26-04-2010 10:49 PM

congrats on your accomplishment

EpicFailGirl 27-04-2010 12:02 PM

thank you =]

DWTS4 27-04-2010 04:59 PM

Congratulations on one week! That's amazing!

EpicFailGirl 27-04-2010 10:17 PM

new caterpillars today, lol, just to remind me =] its a week and two days, but only of cutting. misc SI is um... a few hours. haha.

DWTS4 28-04-2010 02:38 AM

Even just getting cutting under control for a week and two days is great! You should be proud of yourself. :) I'm glad you found something that seems to help a little.


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