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hi my name is matilda. i joined today and i dont know if im doing anything right as i cant use computers very well. im 16 and i have been self harming for nearly 5 years now. I kind of think im beyond help but i think my freinds will calm down a bit if they know im trying to do somthing about it. its a really difficult subject for me to talk about and i kind of surprised myself by joining this website. but anyway id like to hear from some peeps, its nice to know im not the only one. thanks x x x x

hi i joined today i joins a year ago coz i shed for about 3years b4butnow after a year ive slipped n i cant get back out so i rejoined n im here to talk hi dude and dont lose hope i havent

hey matilda

welcome to RYL!

everyone here is lovely and if you need a hand don't hesitate to make a post on the serious discussion board or if it is less serious then the general support board!

take care

Abi. x x x

Pm me at anytime

thankyou it actually means alot. what does pm mean? (i told you im rubbish with computers) x x x

don't worry i am just the same, but once you get the hang of this site you can fly round it in no time at all!!

pm means personal message, if you click on someones name there is the option to send a personal message! or if you go to your control panel and then click on send a personal message you can type in someones username and that will get to them as well! i guess it is jsut like an e-mail

never ask me for technical advice i normally ramble and then confuse everyone!

hope you got that!

x x x x

Hi Matilda!
I just wanted to say hi, I joined this week too, and have found everyone here so supportive. There's loads of advice and help out there if you need it.
I surprised myself too by joining, but it has been a positive step for me to take and hopefully you will feel the same.
I hope I can offer help and support as others have done and continue to do for me.

thankyou! for a 16 year old i am really not up to date with technology! i may not be very good at talking about my own feelings but i can listen to anyone elses! pm me anytime and i will reply asap! love x x x

hi just try and keep ur chin up and chat if u need anyone

Hi welcome to ryl hope you enjoy being here and i hope you get the support you need. If ever you need to talk please dont hesitate to pm me. Take care of yourself. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hey Matilda. Welcome to RYL! :) That's great that you are willing to listen to other people. Hopefully, you will eventually be able to talk about your feelings as well. Hope you enjoy it here. Message me anytime. :D

Welcome to RYL, please get in touch any time. Take care. xxx

heya and welcome to RYL - i'm glad you were able to find us and i hope you find the help and support you need and deserve - feel free to pm me if you ever want or need to talk about anything. its something i find hard to talk about as well but you're in a good and safe place here so feel free to go at your own pace and post when you're ready and able
ellie