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Old 27-05-2009, 01:48 AM   #1
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having trouble please listen

my job went to **** there after christmas
i had no work for ages so i started looking around and i have been up and down the country going for interviews
today i drove for 8 hours to meet a woman who knew a man i met who recommended me .
i went to meet her but she was very stand offish and didnt evern shake my hand when we met
id have to live there and work there and my ex who i ended with badly lives in this town with his ex wife plus a guy who when i innocently gave him my number as a friend tormented me for a year and a half and who hads a gfriend who also rang me attacking me
plus the ex his wife rang me calling me a slag which i am not i was in love with this guy i was seeing but hes seperated and has three kids
anyway my last boss left me with no work for two months with no explanation and i got very angry and had it out with him
then he said he wasnt giving me a reference
now this woman wants to ring him cos she knows him and im like no way
so what the f am i supposed to do here
im begging for some feedback i dont care how little or long
please

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Old 27-05-2009, 07:53 AM   #2
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Is there some kind of labour board to which you can report your former boss?

Dang but this sounds like a tangle.

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Old 27-05-2009, 09:40 AM   #3
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If there was no reason for sacking you then you can go to an industrial tribunal. I don't now the ins and outs but it may well be worth going to the citizens advice beaureau to see if they can give you some info. However, I'm sure you just want a job, however, if you didn't like the lady who may be offering you the job then it could make everything a whole lot worse.

How big is the town, would moving there mean that you would have to see these people? Honestly, a job maybe your income, but it's not your life and you need to make sure that you don't put yourself in situations where you know you're not going to be happy. Think seriously about whether you want this job, because even though it may seem like the only option, it's not, another one will come along.

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Old 27-05-2009, 11:14 PM   #4
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thanks for your replies
i cant report my boss cos hes a law onto himself and i have avoided ringing that lady today .she isnt very nice
im hoping ill get a job here so i dont have to move there

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