So my boyfriends a poopy parent

[Zimisyourleader]

And I dont know what to do. I make them food, when they dont eat it, he gives them junk food. When they cry, they get what they want. I ask him to take them to the park, he makes excuses and gives them a movie to watch instead.

Hes also kind of a jerk to me. Not really bad but I really cant tell any more. I've been in a lot of abusive relationships so i cant really tell when the... not good things are appropriate.

I dont really know what to do. I want to help the kids, I dont want to leave them. but I feel like everything I do goes to waste. He doesnt understand my mental problems and all the times I get upset I am allowed to be left alone, in rooms full of knives and pills and I am fighting it so hard but i feel like I cant do it any more. I dont know what to do.

[SORE]

hi u do know what to do... leaving him. neither u nor ur kids deserve an abusive person around.

[Mandimoo]

guessing the kids are his, not yours. you need to raise the issue with their mother and leave it to them to sort out, get yourself out too

[Zimisyourleader]

Yeah well the mom hates me and is ACTUALLY abusive. I'm not saying hes abusive really. I mean I dont really know. He a lot better than my exes. I dunno. He doesnt abuse the kids at all. They're not mine. Leaving him means i wont get to see them again. And nothing will be done. No one will be around to make them eat good food or punish them.

[Mandimoo]

its not your problem..........