OK, so for the past few weeks me and my ex gf i live with untill we move out and go our own ways
we have been seeing if we can figure it out and get back to happier times
so last night we talked and both agreed to call it a day so we broke up.
which is cool
then
about 10 mins later comes into the bedroom and asks me how I would feel if she told me she liked someone else who I happen to know. she then goes on to tell me it it is someone we went camping with at bug jam festival who we are friends with and reckons this weekend she 'started to like him and would like to get to know him better
we just broke up like 10 mins ago
She still wants to come away in my vw camper van to the festivals etc where a big group of us go and he will be there, I reckon ill feel uncomfortable being around them both at the same time while shes trying to get in his pants.
am I right or wrong to have the fukin hump?
ok talk to me peeps, right now im feeling like moving out now back to the rents till i get me own flat again.
You have every right to feel like that. I'd be FURIOUS if that was me.
Is moving back in with your parents practical? It might not be the greatest thing in the world living back home, but to be honest I couldn't face being around my ex like that all the time, especially when she wants to jump on someone else like 5 seconds later.
Thing is, I have handed our notice in on the flat and we have a 2 month waiting till we are free of the flat,
I already have a room lined up with a brother of a friend but cant move in till stop paying ret on the current place,
I mostly have little stuff of my own to take with me, I dont realy want to be around her anymore, id rather move home for a month till I can move into the new flat.
Yeah I'd suggest moving back home for that time til you can move into the new place. Being round her probably wouldn't have been good for you anyway, but especially now things are like this, it will help you to escape it all being home.
You already know what I think, but I'll tell you again ;)
Go it alone and move on. Start afresh and get away from her, living with your rents again may not be ideal but its a damn sight better than having to look at her face everyday, right?
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Daryl get away from her if that means moving back with the rents or living in your VW camper then do it. Don't let her get to you the sooner she is out of your life the better. I wouldn't let her in vw when you go the festivals either. No way has she just got the feelings ten minutes after you break up she is just an insensitive bitch who has no heart. You deserve someone a hell of a lot better than her and you will feel better once she is out of your life for good.
Hunny you should go back to your parents, you have every right to feel the way you do right now.
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Wow, I'm appalled at her lack of sympathy. Empathy. Whateverthy. Regardless of the reason for your split, she should not have said that to you. I had a hard enough time emotionally telling my ex that I was seeing someone two months after I left him. Despite all the crap he put me through. So I can not comprehend how she could be so heartless.
She sounds so cruel, and you do not need someone like that in your life.
Could you move back to your parents, but carry on paying rent on your old place until the notice ends? You need to be away from her. She sounds like poison. You don't need or deserve the hassle in your life.