mess. yay...

[-Stewie-]

im waiting to go into my 2nd year of uni and i dont have anywhere to live.

i was going to be living in a house with my friends and my bf, me and him were sharing a room. but the friends got pissy with the concept that we are only renting one room therefore will be splitting the cost between us. they expected us to just do a 4 way equal split with them. so yeah told them to **** off because how is it fair for us to pay for 2 single rooms when we're in 1 double?

i have another room confirmed with people already in the house but need to confirm it with the estate agents. they want the guarantors to come in with us so everything can be done in one go which is fair enough as the lease starts in a week.

however my parents live over 100 miles away so they can hardly just pop in with me, and my bfs parents dont even know hes moving out and hes hiding it from them and as guarantors need to be homeowners he doesnt have anyone else. if he just told his parents and they refused then fine i could just get mine to do it. but why should i ask mine when hes not doing anything on his part?

i know its desperate times and no time for being petty but this is just one more thing in a long line of issues i get with bf and its virtually week in week out so im seriously considering ending the relationship. in fact i have decided to im just stalling because im like that =/

but housing is the most important thing cos without it i cant finish my degree and its such a pain that he could help me out with it but i dont want to be with him anymore. but being with him because i feel im ****ed housingwise if im not with him is no reason to keep a relationship

what the hell do i do? im not so much asking for relationship advice cos i know i have to decide that for myself. im talking mainly living =/

i doubt i can even afford to live anywhere until loans come in but thats a week before term starts so cutting it amazingly fine

bleh

[Sigma]

i don't have any good advice (not too good at the living bit myself) - just wanted to say it sounds pretty stressful and not to be hard on yourself... can you get somewhere without him? then you can see him or not and don't have the stress of trying to get him to co-operate

take care

[GrimmFaerieTale]

Bl**dy housing, that's all I can say!! I can entirely entirely appreciate how stressful sorting housing out it, so I really feel for you at the moment.
If you're really sure about ending it with your boyfriend (or even considering it seriously), then you definitely need to consider whether you should be looking for somewhere else to live, with someone else.
In terms of gurantors, for where ever you go for, could they fax a copy over then have the original special deliveried over to the estate agents? That's what mine allowed me to do when I was trying to sort out my house.