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Old 15-06-2021, 03:02 AM   #1
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Positive recovery post - 10 years baby!

Well I finally did it! I have been self injury free for 10 years.

This year I celebrated my 40th birthday in February. It's scary to think that bar 4 months I have been self injury free during the whole of my thirties.

As for the other improvements in previous years I smashed them all bar going for a coffee with my friend and swimming. This isn't due to me not wanting to go but due to covid reasons.

I am not going to do any more yearly updates as I think that they have served their purpose and it's time to move on. So bar any significant updates such as posting on Facebook I am not going to be updating this thread.

I am not leaving ryl as I still struggle with other aspects of my mh such as the voices, my bed and my alcoholism and tbh I need the support. Plus I find the r/v useful for putting my thoughts down before I sleep so shall continue updating that.

Thank you so much dear ryl community for your love and support for the years. I really couldn't have done it without you



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Old 15-06-2021, 05:57 AM   #2
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That's really amazing Dawn. I enjoy reading your updates even if I do not always respond. But congratulations and I hope you do something nice for yourself to celebrate even if you don't always post.



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Old 15-06-2021, 02:07 PM   #3
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Thanks Camden. I am planning to reward myself by the way of mostly art stuff. I have the stuff chosen but am waiting until next week when I get paid until I buy them. They're in my amazon basket just gotta check out. I am a prime member and all the stuff prime eligible so I can have them any time.



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Old 15-06-2021, 02:40 PM   #4
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A MASSIVE well done x



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Old 15-06-2021, 03:25 PM   #5
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That is fantastic Dawn, you are one amazing woman. Well done.





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Old 15-06-2021, 06:39 PM   #6
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Amazingly well done. What an achievement =)

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Old 15-06-2021, 06:43 PM   #7
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Thanks all. I have officially changed my ryl status to free



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Old 15-06-2021, 07:22 PM   #8
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You should post jpgs of your art stuff or of something you make with your art stuff!



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Old 15-06-2021, 08:28 PM   #9
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I have posted pictures of my art years ago in the picture board. Lorraine and I share photos of each others art via WhatsApp. I have been doing mainly drawing.



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Old 16-06-2021, 01:29 AM   #10
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Oh, I just looked. I didn't know you could paint! Very cool!



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Old 16-06-2021, 10:37 PM   #11
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Well done !!

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Old 16-02-2022, 05:15 PM   #12
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I have eventually posted on Facebook. I have detailed the exact post in my r/v.



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Old 16-02-2022, 06:35 PM   #13
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How do you feel about having done that? Well done with all your progress.

Oh and I've just noticed the post where you said you've changed your status on here to 'free' that is huge!





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Old 16-02-2022, 08:20 PM   #14
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I feel quite strong and empowered Lindsay. I am prepared for negative comments and unfriending on Facebook but so far everyone has been lovely.



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Old 17-02-2022, 03:07 PM   #15
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I hope you don't get any negative comments. I don't see why anyone would think of doing that.





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Old 19-02-2022, 05:49 PM   #16
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I havent had any negative comments and as far as I know/remember nobody has unfriended me on Facebook. In fact the comments/messages have been lovely.



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