Er so Salomons are not giving me access to thr recording or notes. I had to submit a data access request and only then did they say that because I don't have access to my emails all I get is a transcription which may not be accurate. They have ignored the question of the notes entirely and now I can't prove it was said at all.
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
Thanks Jen.
Since then I've heard similar stories from friends who had similar issues with their courses. I feel betrayed.
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
Erm yeah they did actually which was that Salomons handling of the process might be discriminatory because they didn't take into account that; as hard as it is for anyone to leave ab abusive situation, one factor that
makes it harder for me is being disabled and the fact that the person whom I'm trying to leave is also meeting my needs, so I'm getting some advice about that.
Er well in some senses I'm doing well Lindsay and this just throws how badly Salomons are treating me into sharp relief. I feel hurt and betrayed and because I now know how poorly some courses have treated some disabled trainees I just feel sad. It does sometimes feel that we are expected to jump through some many hoops but yet vast swathes of society don't care about us (disabled people).
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
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Thank you, sorry I'm replying to this thread so sporadically. I'm having to to a lot of thinking and writing and preparing a complaint that mentions in detail a disclosure of financial abuse and coercive control which nobody at the university seems to be taking seriously.
I finally received the notes because of my subject access request and she didn't mention anything about financial abuse or coercive control, stating this won't be recorded here because of "privacy issues" When I asked her to explain what she meant she said she didn't record it to "respect my privacy" Well what about respecting my disclosure? She never asked me what my best interests were. She says she "finds it hard to understand why what I've been through "means I had to withdraw from the course entirely "given I could do other things like flat hunting" That flat hunting was trying to get myself out of an abusive situation.
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
I'm so sorry the way things are going are making you feel like you're not being taken seriously. I may have asked you this before, apologies, but is there anyone totally on your side who is supporting you through this?
I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
Yes there is but they don't have power. No power to help me in this situation.
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
Yes I think so/hope so. I'm speaking to someone from my union on Monday. Thanks for your regular support Lindsay :)
You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
Hi everyone.
Just to update I sent in an appeal to the university and should hear back about it tomorrow (nervous about that).
I've sent information in for my union so they can decide if I have a claim but that might take a while.
The thing is I'm screwed because I'm was technically employed by an NHS Trust and that is contingent upon me having a place at the university. Once I didn't have a place at the university they essentially had no option but to fire me and I can't argue with that. So if I want to challenge this I potentially can't do it through a tribunal because there is nothing wrong with how my employing Trust have acted.
Anyway sorry for the legal stuff there. I think I'm doing okay in general but my mum said to me today that she "she doesn't want to be portrayed as someone financially abusive" She must have heard that term from someone and she won't tell me who and it's making me paranoid.
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You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you wish to make.
