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Old 19-09-2011, 11:06 PM   #1
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Can't believe it

The man who apparantly loves me made a fist and hit me round the head this evening.
Sorry, now that I've stopped crying I just felt like venting my absolute shock and horror.

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Old 20-09-2011, 03:33 AM   #2
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I'm so sorry he did that... that's terrible :/ Are you very hurt at all? Coping ok? *hugs* I hope you're alright.



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Old 20-09-2011, 04:08 AM   #3
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That is very serious. Even if he says he loves you, the domestic violence would suggest otherwise and I think it might be beneficial for your present and future well-being to stay away from him.

Maybe not what you want to hear, so I apologise. Take care.



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Old 20-09-2011, 04:39 PM   #4
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Sorry he's done that to you. No one deserves that. It might not be what you want to hear but you need to get out of that relationship and fast before it gets worse





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Old 20-09-2011, 07:20 PM   #5
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That is very serious. Even if he says he loves you, the domestic violence would suggest otherwise and I think it might be beneficial for your present and future well-being to stay away from him.

Maybe not what you want to hear, so I apologise. Take care.
I agree with this.
He's done it once, so it's likely that he'll do it again.
I'm so sorry he did do it, though. You do not deserve that.

Take care and stay safe.

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Old 20-09-2011, 10:47 PM   #6
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Thank you so much guys. :)

I've been wondering over and over about what to do about this relationship for quite some time, I think after this event it's finally worked itself out- looks like he's a gonner.

I accidentally elbowed him in the side of his head when we were mucking about, was in the middle of a genuine (albeit giggly) apology, just when I least expected it, he hit. I was really shocked, stunned even. Physically I'm totally fine, slight headache today which has cleared up. Was pretty painful at the time. Emotionally still considerably down, wasn't expecting something like this to affect me so much.

I can't say how much I appreciate your responses, please get in touch if you ever need to talk about anything. x x x

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Old 20-09-2011, 11:29 PM   #7
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Once abuse starts, it always continues in some form it seems. Really very pleased to read that you're ending it.

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