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Old 27-09-2021, 11:10 PM   #21
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I’ll have to get my Pap test next month and I talked to my therapist today about it and she didn’t help me at all!!! she basically said that it’s a medically mandatory and that to talk to my mother and the boss of the group home about it!!!!!☹️



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Old 28-09-2021, 07:52 PM   #22
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I'd be surprised if a pap test was medically mandatory! Did she give you any explanation? If not, then maybe talking to your mum or the group home would be a good idea and you could ask them if you 'have capacity', which means a doctor has decided that you are able to make decisions for yourself.

To be clear, even if I'm right and you don't have to have it, I'll be strongly encouraging you to have it, but I also think it's important that you get your right to choose, if that is possible.



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Old 28-09-2021, 11:43 PM   #23
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I don’t know

Yesterday I sent my mom a email about the Pap test but she did not answer it so Today I have a meeting with the boss of the group home and my mom about how I’m doing and stuff like that and I’m going to try to talk about the Pap test



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Old 29-09-2021, 02:08 AM   #24
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Just found out that the Pap test is going to be done on the 27th of October at 9:00 am and that my mom is going to be there with me but I don’t know if I can do it or not…….



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Old 29-09-2021, 05:16 PM   #25
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Did the meeting go ahead? I hope they were able to explain things to you.



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Old 30-09-2021, 01:36 AM   #26
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yeah...... they kinda was but i still feel scared.....



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Old 01-10-2021, 01:17 PM   #27
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What did they say?

I've had two pap tests, would it help if I talked about what happens?



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Old 03-10-2021, 08:20 PM   #28
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that i would be asleep when it happens

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I’ve been asleep for some invasive procedures when I’ve felt like I couldn’t be awake for them. For me it helped make the whole experience a lot less stressful. Especially as I knew that they people who were doing the procedure were experts and were taking care of me.

It does sound like they are trying to do this in the least invasive way for you, I hope that it helps.

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Old 06-10-2021, 10:37 PM   #30
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Thank you for your help! ��



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