I was a member of ruinyourlife mostly hung around the chat room and lurked. Am still in contact with one person from back then.
RYL has definately come along way thanks to Harley James and all the other site admin and mods.
I lurked about (I had another ID before this) on Ruin, then a couple of weeks later, they changed it to Recover.
Wannabe CPN : -)
"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson "I hear those voices that will not be drowned" Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
I lurked on ruin...I think I posted once, but I don't remember. I was 11.
Then I forgot about it for a year, looked for it again, and found recover.
Also, the one thing I do miss is the section I most frequently looked at on ruin, the pictures. They were interesting to me, not triggering. That was ruin, right? My memory sucks (popsicles).
I remember coming across ruin but never even looked at it, I didn't even connect the two before I found this thread thanks for shedding light, have been on recover now though from the begging but mainly just lurking in the background I'm actually quite active now !
I was a member of ruin way back when. I don't remember how active I was... I'm not sure if that was one of the periods where I actually posted or not. I really need to stop going into lurkerdom/disappearing.
I'm pretty sure my screenname was LostAnDelirious back then though (although I would highly doubt anybody remember me. Actually I might die of shock). =P
I signed up to Ruin Your Life but never went on again because I was worried about the history (I didnt know how to delete it yet hehe).
It seems lyk a lifetime ago.
xxx
Well content loves the silence, It thrives in the dark, With fine winding tendrils,That strangle the heart,
They say that promises sweeten the blow, But I don't need them, No, I don't need them...
There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you.
But there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.
I aint no abacus but you can count on me.