Last edited by griddlebone : 16-11-2014 at 10:12 PM.
Reason: Removed everything not linked to the OPs thread.
♥It's the ups and downs of living life this way. Promise me you'll never go away. Just stay with me through one more night because it's always darkest before the light and now I promise you I'll never turn away. I won't let you give us one less heart to break...♥
I have just spent a fair bit of time removing quite a lot of posts that were hijacking Averys thread. I understand that some of those posts were in response to other peoples posts, however it is unfair for someone elses support thread to be used in that way. Please bear in mind that this thread is only for discussion surrounding what Avery posts and all support/focus should be directed towards that.
If anyone has any issues concerning deleted posts please feel free to contact myself or email into the moderators and we will get back to you as soon as we can.
Liv.
Last edited by griddlebone : 16-11-2014 at 10:35 PM.
There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you.
But there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.
I aint no abacus but you can count on me.
I'm sorry if this is gonna be a long speech but I really would like people to read this and get some understanding on what I'm trying to say. You dont have to read it any of u if u dont eant to but it would be good to get atleast someone to have a flick through or read.
Here is what I wanna say to u all on RYL
AeryGamerDude, I think u need to try and listen some of the useful points people are trying to say to u on here. There needs to be a way forward for us all to come to an conclusion and see whats best for AveryGamerDude.
I agree with the point who suggested to try and understand what he's going through right now with hope of him to feel a little better each day even if he can't see himself to feel better but it's a start. All of us on here have once experienced sucidal thoughts and tried to vomit suicide so I dont see why it would be any different for AveryGamerDude? I don't mean what he said about comiting sucide is right as I dont condone that behaviour at all and I know no one on here would but I think we need to put ourselves in his shoes and see wether we wanna have the will to live. Also I don't agree with the points who suggested about him joining another site. Everyone is entilled to use this site no matter what age, gender, race or religion they are. All the moderators would agree with me there so to get him not coming on the site anymore is just wrong.
I'm not trying to have a go to those people what said it and I can understand why u think that but at the end of the day people have come on this support site for a reason and as someoneelse just said the clue is in the name. We all need to help each other out and if that may take a bit of persuading or incouragment then so be it! RYL will never go forever and willcontinue supporting the people who really need it. It's a good thing that AveryGamerDude is on this site as if he werent he would have absolutely no hope from other people. Even said he has never really got on with most people so the least thing we can do is not try and have a go at him but be honest and consecutive.
I think we all need to read the RYL rules as some of these are being breached with not looking at the fact this is aganist the rules on RYL. I'm sure when everyone went to sign up on here before that knew that inappropriate behaviour, bullying, racism remarks, sexual discrimination and swearing weren't allowed on RYL. I just want everyone to be aware for now on that these sort of behaviours can not go on through this site. What kind of example is this when other members are joining up and are seeing people showing no remorse for others. Have some respect!!! None of u would like it if everyone was giving u a hard time. I'm not just saying people on this forum but everyone else!
Just be aware what u say on here as the moderators can see everything posted so if u have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all. I dont want u to think any of u that u can't show that ur angry cuz of the hurtful comments whats been said. I'm glad that ur not only saying what u think is the matter but ur saying what is the matter or issue other people have got with him. I can understand that completely! You can say what u honesty want to say. Good to know that ur looking at for each other.
There's no need to pick sides either. I'm not trying to say some of u are picking sides but it seemed like that before. I know there were a couple of people what were not nice who commented on AveryGamerDude posts before and I saw it. You will get found it if u say anything else in that kind of way again. I'm only just warning u.
It has to be said for me two! I know I have done wrong and I'm sorry for the people I have upset on here but I have learnt now not to post triggering thoughts I feel to those who it will effect. I'm sorry to the people that I have hurt. I really am and I understand if u still feel hurt but I never ment it.
Dont want to go off the point right now but one thing I wanna say is that I'm glad to hear AveryGamerDude is sticking up for himself cuz I can understand why he wants to be heard as others are not letting him try and explain. Of course were gonna get people disagreeing on here with it causing an argument of some sort but if we obey the rules and try and get along if we have to agree to disagree then I don't see the problem.
Remember we all need to support each other and no matter how bad it is for anyone going through sucide right now we can all say at some point we have all been through it ourselfs. I dont want no one to give up to support AveryGamerDude we actually wanna incourage more and more people to ask for maybe some of advice or just want to be listened to. I think AveryGamerDude just wants others to listen to him and judge and ok we may feel that his opinion to his answers arnt good but we need to think about the individual and what he wants. It's clear he don't want no advice or anyone to get him to do anything he don't wanna do but people who have gone through the same thing.
Just think about when u felt at ur lowest and what u wanted people to say or hear on how u were feeling. This is just what AveryGamerDude wants two so I said from the previous question, why should that be any different? I don't see why it would be but again u may be looking on at the fact he is upsetting others on here who is promoting users on the site to do the same by committing sucide. I agree completely with all the comments said about its upsetting people. I think thats very wrong for him to do that and he needs to be aware of it in the future. I'm not sure if he should get reported for this or not but again that's up to what the moderators do.
Please people don't give up hope for him. Just wants to be accepted and know that he's not on his own but we all need to try and work togethet and support each other on the site. This is what everyone is here for. Just recieved some advice to take away and act on and if not get others to listen to what we have to say. Aslong as were helping each other in some way then thats all what matters.
Also @AveryGamerDude. I dont like how u been speaking to other people on here who been very supportive and have tried to help. I see a few girls have helped u and tried there best by giving u some support in some way and what ur saying to them is wrong and not worth listening to its like u don't wanna hear the genders opinions. I'm sorry to be harsh but that's what it's coming across and I do hope u can look back on these comments at some point if u could and see what u said to the girls like myself on the site. Also AveryGamerDude, think about this. Eventough u want to comit sucide right now and ur not in a good place cuz nothing has helped and u tried everything, can u tell me if u want to answer this question why u are still here?
Again I dont mean it for u not to be here. Of course not! I just put it the wrong way as it was suppose to come out but why are u still here? Please can u think of a time when someone in ur family ended up dieing and u got upset about it when they past away, how did it make u feel? Did u try and do anything in ur power to have one last day with them? I'm saying this because this is exactly what others are coming from. I know u can't see it right now and u Mau disagree but u have to note the fact what everyone has tried to say to u all along.
I'm only trying to be fair so please don't take it personally or for anyone else for that matter. Just want to give some consuctive feedback as I always do. It's never too harsh and its never to nice. I have to say, there have been others on here what have done just the same so I thank you to those what have tried to be nice and constructive. Good to know we have members on here who are very down to earth.
So if anyone has got anything to say about my post what I just messaged on here then feel free to message me back on here for further comments regarding to support AveryGamerDude. I would appreciate it.
Thank You for reading this as it means alot.
Look, I don't just ignore girls advice. I ignore advice from ANYONE. Why? Because it's highly improbable that it won't work.
Also, I remember when my Papa Dean died, I was kinda sad, but I didn't cry or feel very devastated, and I liked him a lot. I just moved on, and so should everybody else once I die. Besides, my death won't be anywhere near as significant as when my Papa Dean perished, because I can't do anything useful.
thanks for sharing what you feel, i think when its your time to go... you know its time to go... but consider this... if you are able to kill yourself then you are able to do truly anything while alive...
hmmm.... how exciting!
thanks for sharing what you feel, i think when its your time to go... you know its time to go... but consider this... if you are able to kill yourself then you are able to do truly anything while alive...
hmmm.... how exciting!
I can't do ANYTHING. I can't grow wings and fly. I can't revive the dinosaurs. And I DEFINITELY can't be fooled into thinking that life is worth living. Which it isn't!
