I said S.I. because I know that it would completely tear me apart to see anybody that close to me, that I loved so much, hurting themselves. It seems really hypocritical but it's horrible to think about one of my friends or family doing it. I'm getting upset just thinking about it...
I said ED. It was an extremly hard one between "I SI" & " you noticed they have an ED ". But i just thought that mentally having an ED would be the slightest bit harder than if you SI.
I wouldn't like to hear any of them really.
Well if they were happy to be pregnant that would be ok, like in a stable relationship, and able to support the baby and such.
Id have to say an ED, i dont know why though, i suppose noticing something is worse (IMO) then being told because its like your child cant talk to you, it would definately hit me the worst
Carly xxx
I tried to be someone else, but nothing seemed to change
I know now this is who I really am inside
[I don't wanna die, but i ain't keen on living either]
SI, because I know how much pain you gotta be in to do it and I would feel awful because I probably wont be able to do anything about it, just the fact that my son or daughter would be in a lot of emotional pain and that would scare me more than anything.
hmmmm.
well...i have a 10 year old son.
i dont believe i can choose which would be worse.
pregnancy would be the best though. if there has to be a "best".
most teenagers are having sex and sometimes this happens. yes...it would be hard. but it wouldnt be an illness. it wouldnt mean my son was very sick with an illness that i cant fix. it would only mean another little person added to the family. that may have sounded way too simple...but in the light of it all...i think it is.
Last edited by pea soup : 28-08-2007 at 11:18 PM.
Reason: meh...
Even though I haven't had/got an ED, I voted ED. I find them hard to deal with. With S/H i'd feel I could help more & pregnancy I would try to help as much as I could too. As previously mentioned, you can get more help with drinking.
You can't lose hope when it's hopeless.
You gotta hope more,
then put your fingers in your ears and go,
"Blah blah blah blah!"
Well i have been fasi=cinated, thanks all for your resposes its one of those things i like to think about delivering papers to keep me busy and ive often wndered waht others would say
i think with SI i could ciope cause i would know how to reascot better but an ED ic oudlnt handle
i said ed, because its messed me up alot more than my cutting and drinking has done, ed is alot harder to deal with than the others and harder to recover from it, or thats what ive found from my own experiences anyway. fingers crossed that my child/ children dont have the same problems that i do
Being mentally ill, becasue i would have pased that on.
I dont think any are really worser than each other. They are all bad in their own way. But its more about how you deal with it, rather than how "bad" it is.
"Its not how long a star shines, what is remembered is the brightness of the light"
my whole life has been. running with the wind. and playing with the cowards. it’s so hard to see. i’m fractured within. a poet in a window. we’re bastards and thieves. we’re lovers and saints. we’re holding on to mourning. and in the shadows i will be. until the sunlight melts away. until we tire of murder...fill me up with love...say goodbye when you leave. remember to breath. remember to listen. it’s getting harder to be. the son you want of me. the son i’ll never be.
Tetris
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