Support for Tilly (mixed_emotions) *could trigger*

over and out · 10-06-2008, 03:29 AM

Ok Tilly is going through a very hard time at the minute and she really could do with some support.
She has recently suffered a miscarriage, after finding out (surprisingly) she is pregnant. At the minute she is blaming herself for it and having a great difficulty coming to terms with it. So please any support would be helpful to her at the minute.
I will be directing her here as soon as possible, she is sorry for this (I for one does not see the need for the apology but she said sorry so I wrote it), and I hope she will be able to get through this hard time.

Tilly you know I am always here, only ever a text away I promise. Love you huni, thinking of you.

CaiteeBug · 10-06-2008, 03:33 AM

awww, I'm so sorry! *mega squishes*

Just Believe. · 10-06-2008, 03:38 AM

Tilly, I'm so sorry hun. Please don't blame yourself because it isn't your fault, sometimes things happen which are out of our control. Don't give up, you can get through this and you have so many people willing to help. I'm only ever a text away, take care of you.
*cuddles*
Kirsty x

the darkness inside me · 10-06-2008, 03:43 AM

im SO SORRY that happened to you. no one deserves that to happen to them.only thing i can possibly relate to that is me losing my dad which has started my si ing, depression and ED. Again i am so sorry for you. is there anything i can to do help you out? just let me know and i will personally do anything in my power to help you ok?

ashleighbean · 10-06-2008, 04:19 AM

tilly, hun. i am so sorry to hear that this happend. please do not blame yourself...it was not your fault.
i am always here if you need to talk.
*squishes*
xxxxxxx
ashleigh

10-06-2008, 08:52 AM

I'm so sorry sweety!! Hang in there ok, I know it's hard, you can PM me anytime if you want, I know how your feeling, I still blame myself for mine. It's hard, but hang in there. We're all here for you! *squishes*

10-06-2008, 09:01 AM

squishes

take care hunnie you are not to blame x

Tig · 10-06-2008, 09:47 AM

Hugs Tilly. I'm really sorry you have had to go through something so traumatic. Please take care of yourself xx

Beautifully Broken · 10-06-2008, 10:31 AM

I'll be calling you soon if I haven't heard from you, but anyway...

Sweetheart, I know you think this is your fault, but its not. As someone else said, miscarriages are common. You know I'm always here for you. Nothing will change that.
I love you STB, so so much.
Your STB.
xxxx

Popple · 10-06-2008, 10:52 AM

*cuddles*
Oh I am so sorry sweetie
This is not your fault, You have done nothing wrong.
Please take care of yourself
And we are all here for you
Much Love
xx

Puppet Strings · 10-06-2008, 01:33 PM

Tilly, *cuddles*
Please look after yourself, and this is not your fault. You couldn't help what happened, so try not to beat yourself up over it.

Guys, Tilly has her own thread here that you may be interested in, which is more support based and specific.

Much love, x

Sweetest Downfall · 10-06-2008, 10:45 PM

*squishes*
Tilly I am so sorry you had to go through this, stay strong
xxx

Ingenue · 12-06-2008, 05:20 PM

*squishes you*

This is not your fault hunni.
Please don't blame yourself.
We're all here for you.
Don't ever feel alone.
<3

CrazyChaoticMess · 12-06-2008, 05:50 PM

*squishes* huni i am so so so sorry about the miscarage, tis not your fault at all *shakes head* not at all, and there is no need for an apology, take care of yourself huni xxx

TimesLikeThese · 12-06-2008, 06:47 PM

Take care of yourself - this is NOT your fault. Be brave x