It may seem bad now that he found out, but it may be for the best. It's really important to be honest in a relationship. I am sorry to hear that he reacted poorly. If this is his first experience with SI it may be shocking to him. Just remember that he can't make you stop. Only you can stop if you desire to.
Also I would suggest telling him some things that trigger you so that he can understand why you do it. Also, why not recommend that he does a little research. Show him some good articles or websites explaining SI. I find that sometimes other people's words work more efficiently than my own.
I know it is very hard. A lot of times when people react badly it is because they care about you and don't know how else to react.
Good luck!! Stay strong!
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