Having someone you deeply care about know and react badly to SI is hard....I know. The only thing YOU have control over though is YOU. remeber that. If you are not in a place in your life to stop, that is your disicion, the only thing you can do is give him AS much information you can about SI. Some important things to remeber thoughto make it easier on both of you is:
*Never promise him your going to stop unless you are.
*Dont lie to him about it if he asks you.
*Try to discuss it with him, but if he would rather ignore it right now, let him.
I've had some bad exsperiance with guys who just dont get it. If you ever need to talk please PM me. I am here for you with as much support as I can give *hugs* Stay strong
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