To clarify, i've started to think i might be gay recently, i'm kinda confused. Um my theory is that EVERYONE has the potential to be 'bi'. I think you have a connection/fall in love with the person, not the gender. I'd never gone out with a girl properly before Ollie, i had a brief and very odd 'thing' with a close girl friend though. I think what happened with Ollie and i (from my side anyway) which has happened to at least 3 sets of my mates is that we were and still are best mates. We know everything about eachother and i think sometimes when you get that close to someone it's easy and kinda natural to fall in love with them. Whereas before i could appreciate that some girls were attractive i never really fancied them, whereas i did fancy and go out with guys. However, now i find myself being more attracted to girls. I really don'y know what's going on. All i know is that i've been with her for 16 months now and i've been the happiest i've been in a long time. Not right now lol but in general.