Invidia,
It's sad that family can be so narrow minded. It sounds like they can't accept you for the person you are so you would be better off being far away from them. It is really their loss not yours.
My own family didn't accept my wife for years. Mainly because she is older than me and they are so old fashioned and narrow minded that they see this as wrong. Then again they never accepted anyone I ever dated. There would always be something "wrong", like different upbringing, different age, race etc.
Moving away from my family was the best thing I ever did, even though it put me into serious debt. Now I live 4 hours away from them. If I had to live in the gutter it would be better than living with people with such redneck intolerant attitudes. When things started getting bad with my health it was only my wife that stood by me. Absolutely no one else.
If I were you I would be out of there at the speed of light. My thoughts are with you.
Nathan
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