Stay neutral, let your friend know you'll be supportive of her but seeing as they were both drunk, they're probably unsure of what happened so don't take sides. Just knowing that you're there for her to talk to will probably help you're friend.
Since you're worried about flashbacks I would advise you to be there for your friend and listen to her but don't get too deeply involved. Instead give her a helpline to call or a number for a counsellor.
Hope you find a way to help her without hurting yourself
Lots of love
~Emmie xxx
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