Originally Posted by
PropheticStar
how does one stop hating themselves?
Erin,
you need to find bits of you that you like rather than look at you as a whole. I think I hate myself when I am feeling low- but I am working on it - so far I've managed to come up with some good points about me - i.e I have a really good heart - I really care about others and also care about how what I do affects others - I know I am a good person in that respect so I can't hate myself completely . Try something like that - just find bits of you that you think are good - gradually you will see you're not a bad person - we see it all ready.
Hopefully you can get to the point where you hate what has happened to you - the things that have made you feel this way - but you will realise that you are not too blame and there is no reason to hate you. Good luck and take care. xxx